Go for it!

Why do humans always lack self confidence. Where is the faith. I thought We were thought to believe in ourselves and be focused.

If you want something go for it, if you love someone tell the person and if you're not feeling good about something don't do it. Most of these things leads us to bad decisions. I believe good decisions come from bad experiences and experiences come from bad decisions.

Doubts, what do I have to say about that. Have you noticed most doubts mostly turn to mistakes? Well, mine does. I stopped thinking for a while and he'll yeah got the mistakes running down like tap water. So, I decided to start thinking again.

I've been having one particular dream. Somewhere I wanna be because I believe hat place will be the best place for me and Kimora. My daily prayers has to include that dream, why because I believe I can make it. And lately I see myself getting closer to my dream ,I believe, that dream will eventually turn to reality.

Having faith and trust an easy task. But you make it easier, when you believe.

I believe! Do you?





LN.xxx

No matter where you look, from movies to magazine ads, men are always being told that they need a woman to be happy. And while the company of a lady does have its boons, there are benefits to flying solo as well.

The single life is replete with liberties that you could not imagine. Here are the top 10 reasons you should consider taking a hiatus from the relationship arena and remain single.

 

Number 1

You can flirt as you please

 

Nothing is worse than that nagging voice in your head telling you that you shouldn't be talking to this killer brunette in front of you. Being single gives you the complete freedom to flirt with whomever you want, whenever you want. 

It also gives you the chance to sharpen your mojo so that, before you know it, you'll be the master player on your block. Since you're unattached, take this opportunity to master the art of seduction, and who knows what rewards you'll reap.

Number 2

You can be your own boss

Relationships are synonymous with compromise. You eventually have to sacrifice something you really like -- a football game or extra cheese on your pizza -- for the good of the pair. Use your single time to treat yourself a little more. In small doses, selfishness is good for the soul.

Being your own boss also means answering to no one. You went to a strip club? You got the scent of some woman's perfume all over your clothes? Enjoy not having to explain your actions.

Number 3

You can focus on your career

Life is a juggling act in which you have to keep the many elements aloft, paying equal attention to each one. But if you let one drop, you can channel your forces to the remaining parts. In the absence of a relationship, you'll have much more time to devote to your work. You can put in those extra hours on a project to impress your boss, and even take on something else. And you don't have to worry about sacrificing your love life, as you'll be single and vigorous.

Number 4

You can be spontaneous

Being single lets your break out of the numbing cycle of routine. Be daring while you can. Go on a fishing trip with your crew at the drop of a hat. Push it further and head out on a wild Spring Break surrounded by gorgeous college women. Not only will you be doing something out of the ordinary, you can do it without double-checking with someone else first. This is the height of freedom.

Number 5

You don't have to deal with another's personal habits

You used to cringe when she used your razor to shave her legs, and the scented candles she burned in every room made you sick. Now there's no irritating habits to tolerate. You can sleep peacefully without her snoring and hog all the blankets without a care in the world. You have no one to pick up after but yourself. Give your patience a well-deserved break and live in unflustered.

Number 6 

You have more time for activities

When you're single, you have no reason to sit around doing nothing. Want to harden your body at the gym? Play a new instrument? How about watch the Die Hard trilogy for the 11th time? Who's stopping you?

You can even use the time that you'd spend pleasing a demanding girlfriend to hang with the boys. After all, isn't neglecting your friends one of the biggest sacrifices of couplehood?

Look forward to being spontaneous, not having to answer to anyone and flirting like crazy

Number 7

You can control your finances
If you've ever been in a serious relationship, you know that, sooner or later, a good chunk of your budget goes into steady lady-maintenance costs. Bachelorhood gives you full financial freedom, and you never have to worry about paying for dinner or buying presents.

However, understand that this does not mean that you will save money -- on the contrary; you might be spending more on partying, buying drinks, dressing well, and so on. But at least you are the master of every single dollar you spend.

Number 8 

You can appreciate your independence

You can use your newfound free time for solitary fun, as well as self-improvement. Being single forces you to do things for yourself, like cook, do laundry and tidy up your pad. Being skilled at many things makes you a more complete, well-rounded person -- a great card to hold when you decide to reenter the dating market.

Furthermore, independence is a great trait, and women will likely notice that you're not the needy, clingy type.

Number 9

You can gain weight without worrying
Just as you can spend more time buffing up at the gym, you can also just chill and let yourself go for a little while. When you're not on the market, you don't have to worry about looking like an Adonis every day. Go ahead and wear that threadbare Metallica T-shirt and those holey boxers. Enjoy the pleasure of occasionally being a slob. Just don't go so far that you can't trim down in time for when you decide to start hunting.

Number 10

You don't have to tolerate moodiness & nagging
Fellas, how many times have you been in the doghouse because your woman was livid for reasons you still don't understand? Relish not being the target of her inexplicable mood swings, and the calm that comes when there's no nagging. When you wake up on the couch, you'll know it's because you chose to pass out there.

Dont be A copy!

Are you being yourself? Learn to recognize and accept the world and the people around us for what they are and not what we think they should be or how we can change them to thinking as we do.

Are you being yourself? We need to recognize and accept
the world and the people around us for what they are and not what we think they should be or how we can change them to thinking as we do. Now this can be very tough but sometimes we can make a difference, especially when we see injustice.

What I am saying is try to not beat your head against a wall trying to change someone to your way of thinking, just accept them for who they are.

To be happy you need to be satisfied with yourself: you need to know how to meet your needs.

Live it! Its yours

Creamy

Whenever i hear the song I Love you by Psquare it reminds me just of one person. Everyone has a favorite song. What does your favorite song do to you and why?

I remember on my 22nd Birthday i was asked to stay home the whole day. I was told i was going to get a package. Was so excited i stayed by the doorbel the whole morning. The package got home around 10am and guess what it was.

A bunch of red and white roses. Bottles of wine and every bouquet had the lyrics of my favorite song.  Singing: You are my personal person, If i go do anything i go do am very well for you.. la la la..

Only a apecial friend makes your birthday worthy.

Since then Creamy has been in my life and i dont intend making him leave. A special friend deserve a special post on my blog. He's been there when there are downfalls and he keeps reminding me how beautiful and special i am. Kinda annoying hearing it everyday but still got maddest love for him hihiiihi.

Whenever im down, whenever i need any advices i turn to you. Not because i dont have anyone to turn to, its because you manage to make me feel special at in your own way.

Thank you for being there whenever there were are tears and reminding me how beautiful my smile is.
Your words motivate me. You promised never to make me fall that's why i pledge my true love for you. Wherever you are, whatever it takes i  L'oreal Neverson will be there for you..


LN.

Mistakes!!

So, ive been starring at my blog for the past 30min now. Didnt know what to write about, A good Fried JayRedman gave me hint.

I decided to typ down a few lines and see what would come out of it.

When i look back in my life. Mistakes got me where i am today. Mistakes made me a better person. People should be glad they make mistakes. Cause Mistakes improves the human soul.

Ok, now look at this way. You make bad decisions in Life and you're supposed to learn from it. Most people dont learn from it and repeat it again. What does that say of you. I sat down and thought all over again.

 Why dont we learn from our mistakes. Why do we still hang around people we clearly know they dont need us. Why do offer our heart to the wrong people and get it broken. Obvisouly, there is nothing humans can do about it but makes sure the mistake is not repeated.

Made a mistake before and your about to repeat it? I suggest you think twice about. Look back and remember how it felt like. There is nothing that would make you repeat it again. Although I've always said giving up is not in my dictionary, makes you a loser. And we all know everyone cant be a winner but you can definitely be an achiever.

Lets Think twice before we get into another sweet mistake.

LN.. XxXx

Kinky Sex Tips

1. Communicate- Don't take sex seriously – take your needs seriously – it's your responsibility to make things happen. Be open and honest with your partner. When experimenting, remember to let go and laugh about mishaps. Reflect and talk about how you can both improve on things next time while sharing the two-way street of kinky sexual pleasure!


2.Do a Dita von Teese
Leave the complicated stuff to the professionals and sexercise yourself first. Get naked, look in the mirror and enjoy what you see. Dance, sway, have fun. Experiment with lingerie, props, silk scarves… the list is endless. When ready for your close-up, revel in the power as you watch your audience become very hot and bothered.


3.Have an old Fashioned quickie..
You've read this a thousand times before, but it really does work. Give your man a good snog, grope like teenagers, and get him to bend you over the back of the sofa for a great entrance. Leaving trousers around the ankles, skirts bunched up around the waist, etc, adds to the raw sex factor.


4.The great Outdoor
Erotic, fun and intense, as long as you don't own a Mini. He sits in the passenger seat, while you ride in a forwards position towards the window, using the dash for support. Push and grind while he places his hands on your waist and hips, occasionally lifting you up slightly for some all-important visuals. Unless you want to be caught at it, approach with planning


5.Role play
Try 'the thief'. After being caught burgling your house 'the thief' throws you violently to the bed, telling you he'll hurt you if you don't allow him to have his wicked way. Be Little Red Riding Hood with some hot red lingerie and a blood-red cape. Your man pretends he's the Big Bad Wolf and eats you completely


6.The Three, four, five some
Fancy upping the stakes a little? Group sex can be a thrill-seeking, adventurous ride. But as with all of the kinky sex rules, it might be dangerous for a relationship if you and your partner don't communicate. Discuss it thoroughly beforehand and understand the boundaries and limits of the romp to come.


7.Viagra
There are plenty of variants to choose from on the market – including specific drugs for women (known under generic names) – just don't buy them online. Get advice from a pharmacist or doctor and then get yourselves ready for a non-stop banging session. Even insomniacs will sleep like babies when you've finally worn yourselves out