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Hey,
Welcome you to my personal blog.
Its all about self experiences and things yet to experience in life, I wish to share.
The blog is still under construction so please bare with me.

I hope you enjoy reading my posts and i would love to read your comments after reading...

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L'oreal Neverson



vrijdag 6 mei 2011

Believe in Ghosts. Part 2.

Years later and everyone left the house.
Ken had a girlfriend Myka. Myka worked as a nurse and Ken became an architect. Ken never revealed the story until one day.

Its midnight.

Ken was home alone, Myka had night shifts. He heard a voice. He woke up, looked around and saw no one. He went back to bed. This happened almost every night.
Whenever he told Myka about it, she calls him crazy.

Its Sunday, Every Sunday the brothers meet up at Dad's house and have dinner. Talk about what happened during the week.
After dinner,Ken asked his dad about the voices. Dad said: Whenever you hear a voice answer by saying" Yes Dad". Ken nodded and said OK.

A couple of Days later, he was home alone, heard a voice again and answered "yes dad".

The voice: My Son, i am here today giving you an assignment in life. You need to be smart and follow my guidelines. There is time involved so be fast.
Tomorrow i will guide you to an unknown place. You are going to get what belongs to you.

Ken sits up surprisingly and said, OK Dad.

its morning and Ken decided to tell Myka the whole story. Myka was shocked but glad she got to know the story behind it all. she asked ken, why are you telling me this now? Ken said because my dad just gave me an assignment and your going with me.
She looked at Ken and asked him ' Are you crazy'. which of your dad's. Uncle Grant or your real Dad? My real dad answered Ken. She got quiet and decided to follow his insanity.

They got in the car and he started driving. Myka asked him if he knew where to drive to. he was driving to an unknown destination but he knew his Dad was with him. After driving for hours, a voice said 'pull over'. He pulled over.
He saw a man in white and told Myka ' that's my father' She looked around and said your the only one in this insanity. i cant see him. They followed him.

They followed him and got to a second-hand shop. Dad disappeared. Ken asked the man in charge of the shop, if he had seen a man in white entering the shop. The man answered, No! Myka kept on telling him he's crazy but he knew he wasn't.

He started looking around and saw a green coat. He went closer.

The coat had his fathers name. He asked the man, where he got the coat and he said he found it. According to the man, it belonged to an old soldier. Ken paid for the coat and left the shop. they got in the care and he it got him thinking. why would my father lead me to his old coat.

He started searching in the coat and found and envelope. It contained a note with an address and a key. He started his car and started moving to the unknown address.

After a while they got there and opened the door. the house looked all messy and dusty. the house belonged to his parents. He saw pictures of his mom and dad, books and a whole lot more. Just across the room he saw another envelope.

The envelope contained his dad's insurance documents worth over millions. He stared at the papers and showed them to Myka. They all stood there shocked.

Suddenly he dropped a tear!

The next day he visited his dad at the cemetery and laid a flower for his guidance.

Ken and Myka got married a year later. Uncle grant led him to the altar. Ken was protected by his daddy since childhood.He led him to an unknown destination and gave him what he achieved while he was alive.
My point: I believe in my ghost. do you?  Guardian Angels do exist. Just give it a chance, everyone has a protecting angel.

Written by LNeverson...

Believe in Ghosts!!

Ken lost his dad at a very young age. he died serving his country. Uncle Grant took Ken in but never told Ken the truth behind it all. His uncle had three kids Daniel, Derrick and Thomas. Ken had a great bond with them.

Daniel and Derrick were twins and much older. They were the meanest guys you can ever imagine. They always bullied Thomas and Ken because they were the youngest.
Thomas was ken's favorite. they did everything together. One thing, Uncle never did was treat Ken differently. he treated them all the same, showed them love equally and punished them fairly.

On Ken's 20th birthday he got woken up by a voice saying" Happy birthday Son". He woke up looked around and didn't see anyone. He went down stairs and Uncle Grant was reading his daily papers. He looked weird and asked, Ken:Dad, where you in my room? Dad: No Son, Happy Birthday! Get ready i have a surprise for you!.

Ken ignored the voice, went up stairs and got ready. They got in the car on their way to the surprise.Uncle Grant asked ken a very weird question. Uncle Grant: Ken, would you like to join the army? Ken: No, Dad i want to be a architect just like you. Ken got amazed by uncle's question. They got to their destination, a museum! What are we doing here Dad? i thought you had a birthday surprise for me. This is your surprise, uncle answered. There is someone i want you to meet.

They got in and Ken realized its an Army Museum.Why did my Dad, bring me to a museum on my birthday? He was confused. At the entrance he saw a picture of Uncle Grant. He never knew Uncle Grant was in an army. He started asking questions, but was asked to save his questions for later.
They got to a wall and the wall had pictures of Uncle Grant and his brother. Ken never knew Uncle had a brother. Where is your brother now Dad and how come i never knew?
He got no answer!

Uncle grant had tears in his eyes. Son: I'm going to tell you a secret.

I was asked to tell you the truth when your old enough to understand. The voice you heard today wasn't me. It was your father. Ken looked at his Uncle very surprisingly. But you weren't in my room, asked Ken. Yes my son. That's because I'm your Uncle. The brother you see on the wall, is your father.
Your dad and i, served the country with all our lives. Your dad saved my life during the war. that's why i couldn't see you go to a Forster care. i had to do something. i left the army because of guilt and took you in. Your dad's last words were "Be his dad".

Ken was out of words. What about my mother? Your mother is alive. She sends you letters and calls you all the time. WHAT!!!! Aunt Lisa? Ken has an angry look on his face
Oh My God! Why am i not living with her? I begged her to take you, i wanted to be the father you didn't have. I wanted to "Be your Dad". Ken gave Uncle Grant the biggest hug ever and said, Its OK!.

They got in the car on their way home, and Ken asked: Dad, What do i call you now? Do i tell the others? Uncle Grant: No Son, Its a Secret!

donderdag 5 mei 2011

My Best Collection Of Maya Angelou

1.I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
2.Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.
3.All great achievements require time
4.One must know not just how to accept a gift, but with what grace to share it.
5.It is time for parents to teach young people early on that in diversity there is beauty and there is strength.
6.Jealousy in romance is like salt in food. A little can enhance the savor, but too much can spoil the pleasure and, under certain circumstances, can be life-threatening
7.The horizon leans forward, offering you space to place new steps of change
8.I don't believe an accident of birth makes people sisters or brothers. It makes them siblings, gives them mutuality of parentage. Sisterhood and brotherhood is a condition people have to work at.
9.Words mean more than what is set down on paper. It takes the human voice to infuse them with shades of deeper meaning
10.When it looked like the sun wasn't going to shine any more, there's a rainbow in the clouds.

Best Collection of Move-On Tips

1.Sometimes the cards we are dealt are not always fair. However you must keep smiling & moving on
2.Moving on, is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard
3.To be able to move on, one has to learn to forgive not only the person (or people) who have done one wrong but also oneself
4.Life is about making the right decisions and moving on
5.You are responsible for your life. You can't keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on
6.Take a second out to think about this: in your life you search and search for the right person for you. Every time you break up with someone you get one step closer to that person. You should look at moving on as getting closer to meeting the one
7.Moving On has allowed me to know who I am and to be present in all that I do. I take this forward in my work and in my personal relationships. It is a powerful program and I highly recommend it to anyone wanting to move on with their life.
8.Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means moving on. It is one of the hardest things a person can do. Starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. We feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. But as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. We are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. It means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so.
9.Any change, any loss, does not make us victims. Others can shake you, surprise you, disappoint you, but they can't prevent you from acting, from taking the situation you're presented with and moving on. No matter where you are in life, no matter what your situation, you can always do something. You always have a choice and the choice can be power.
10.If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.

woensdag 4 mei 2011

I Need A Man

I need a Man.
I need a man that stays will stay by my side when I need someone to talk to.
I need a man to tell me the word LOVE every morning.
I need a man that will make me feel like a woman.
I need a man that just pops up with flowers, candies and gifts.
I need a man that remembers my birthday.
I need a man that remembers my favorite dish.
I need a man that remembers my shoe size and knows my favorite color.
I need a man that doesn’t only think about TODAY. You need to think about TOMORROW.
I need a man that loves me for who I am.
I need a man to move along with my family.
I need a man that doesn’t need a car to be on top.
I need a man who loves kids.
I need a man that treasures everything I do for him.
I need a man who thinks about me before he goes to bed and thinks of me when he wakes up.
I need a man that takes my breath away.
I need a man that makes me cry (tears of joy)
I need a man that understands what I’m worth.
I need a man who can make me happy.
I need a man who makes me smile.

On top of this all, I want a man that has a heart and understand the simplicity of Love. These are the reasons we search.. We find guys with some of these features and some with none. You cannot always get what you want. This is what most women want in their future guys. We can’t have it all. Appreciate what you have.

Whenever - A poem i wrote for Resi Arthur& Laurencia Darkwah

Whenever i had to shed tears, you were there to wipe them off.
Whenever i needed someone to talk to, you were there to talk to me.
Whenever guys took advantages, you were there to insult me.
Whenever i moved with the wrong people, you were there to set me straight.
Whenever i had a badhairday or a silly outfit, you were there to laugh.
Whenever  was broke, you always gave me money if you had some.... lol.
Whenever i cooked and wasnt tasty, you were there to yell at me.
Whenever i said something wrong , you were there to correct me.\par
Whenever i felt lonely, you were there to hold me tight and hug the hell out of me.
Whenever people came between us, we showed them we are one.
Whenever there is an issue, we stay strong no matter what.

On top of this all. You are always there whenever and wherever i need you. I LOVE YOU..

Specially written for Resi Arthur n LedonneGlow.

SKY!!!

When you are down
And you want to get high,
Just take a good look
Up in the sky.

What you will see
Are the stars above,
And all you need
Is to proclaim your love.

Who you will find
And see so clear,
Are friends in mind
You want to hold near.

Whenever you need them
Just look up high,
Call their name
And see them fly.

Every friend you meet
Owns a star
And you can see them
No matter how far.

Whenever you are down
And want to get high,
Just take a good look
Up in the sky.

Testing The waters

You will never believe till you experience it. Love is devilish. People are being loved, people are being taken cared of and you sit at home wondering if love will ever be dropped at your frontdoor. Love comes easier if its not searched. Searching reminds you of the fantasy you have in your mind. The perfect guy with a good job, with lots of respondiblities and on top of that good looking. Focus less on the outside and focus more on the inside. I Just think you should test the waters. Testing the waters makes you know what u really want in Life.

Whats a good guy? What do you want in your man? Well ive always had a big fantasy about my future guy. I Picture him in my dreams but the question is does he really exist or im i watching to many movies?

Does a good guy always need to have a good job, be good looking, have his marvelous car and a large bankaccount? The question is No. People find love in gangster, drop outs whatever. Its The inside that counts. Doing bad things doesnt mean ur horrible or evil it simply means you are human. Perfection is not on anyone's side. You can try to be perfect but no one is.

Mistakes are to be made and forgiveness is by choice. There are things you can never forget but forgive. People mistake those two words for alot of things but if you really read between the lines there are things that makes sense.

dinsdag 3 mei 2011





Friends

When the first sex and city movie came out, I went with a couple of friends to watch it. There was a scene when Miranda gave Big an advice which led to Carrie being left at the altar. I looked at my friends and asked them "Can we ever be good friends like these four girls" They starred and nodded at me.

What’s my point? My Point is there is a difference between a friend and a FRIEND. (If you get what i mean). Everyone pretends in Life especially in friendships.

We believe more in our friends than we believe in ourselves. Others like me have been through a lot with friends. Some of them mostly betray you and you will be like I’m done with friends but the truth is u can never be done with friends. You just have to know how to deal with your friends.

There are three types of friends. 1. Hi-bye friends. 2. Regular Friends. 3. True, soul Friends.

It’s the True soul friends are the friends that mostly hurts us. These are the friends who can be trusted to be there for you whenever you need them, and they will go the extra mile for you.

Here are my tips:
1.Never tell many friends one story. Always tell a different story to everyone so when something happens you know where it came from.
2.Know your friends.
3.Things like boyfriend/husband matters shouldn’t be discussed. It should stay between you and your spouse.
4.You will definitely know when your friends envy you. When you notice it, BACK OFF.
5.Never do what others are doing. Peer pressure is NOT in your dictionary.
6.Have a friend who helps you in time of need. Not friends who forget you in time of need.
7.My Feelings never deceive me. When you have a bad feeling about someone you should think twice.
8.Never be friends with your friend’s friends. Known your friends
9.Knowing new people is good. But know your limit; remember you don’t know her/him that well. Take a while before you can trust.
10. Be yourself don’t change yourself to make new friends. That’s the worst thing you can do.

Feel Free to add more tips if have any.

maandag 2 mei 2011

How. Why. Who. When? Questions in Life

I have always had faith i could this. sometimes people just wish to bring you down. thats the reason why you should keep certain things to yourself. Get yourself a diary with a lock> start writing whats in you that u cant tell others. At the end of every week you should sit down and read it over with a cup of tea. You might cry over what you reading but read all you have written over a year and tell me if you will still be in that position.

Time is precious< to change is a Challenge. It doesnt go easier than we want it to be.

People go through a lot of things that drives them doing things no one will ever understand. We read the papers, watch tv and hear alot of amazing stories. We never know what made those people do what they were doing.
 I have a feeling i speak for many people who are in pain and dont want to show it. There is no need to hide how you feel or what you have done. You may be hated by many n loved by a few but what matters the most is God never rejects. How bad u are, how many hearts you have broken, how many lies you have told, How many guys uve slept with. If there can be a Change in your life. God provides that Change but all you need to do is seek!

I woke up from a dream 1 day. I heard a voice and the voice qouted" You are hated by many but not by me> What i think matters never shed a tear because you are hated by human"
There came a time i didnt want to step out my house,I felt the whole world had turned against me. My best friend was my dairy. I remember writing everything down, whenever i returned to read what i wrote after a week i would just burst out in tears and ask God 1 question 'WHY'??

HOW? WHY? WHO? WHEN?
How did this all get started, Why did it happen, Who is the cause of this all, When will it finally stop!!

These were the questions i keep asking myself. I needed answers and i finally got them. It took a while but i got them...

Yes i got the answers i had be looking for years in a short time.

My mirror says Im beautiful



A Preview of "My Mirror says Im beautiful'

There is a thing about humans, u can never tell whether they are speaking the truth or ur being deceived. They say stuff and you believe them but sometimes its better to listen to the inner YOU.
When you stand infront of your mirror when you put up your make up or dress up to impress you see what you believe in. Thats whats Life is about. The inner part can never deceive you cause thats who you are..
To change people's definition of appearances can only be occured when u surely have faith in you. Everyone was born with a destiny on earth. Some get good jobs while others get lousy jobs. Some where born wealthy while others struggle to get there. Anything thats worth having is worth fighting for. thats the same way everyone's mirror is different.. Believe in your mirror