Welcome

Hey,
Welcome you to my personal blog.
Its all about self experiences and things yet to experience in life, I wish to share.
The blog is still under construction so please bare with me.

I hope you enjoy reading my posts and i would love to read your comments after reading...

Kisses& Hugs...

L'oreal Neverson



woensdag 27 juli 2011

You Just have to Call on Me!

You just call out my name,
And you know where ever I am
I'll come running, running
To see you again...
Winter, Spring, Summer or Fall
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there...
You've got a friend,
Ain't it good to know ?
You've got a Friend.

Best Friend

You are my best friend,
My very best friend,
You make me happy,
Everyday,
You share your great snacks,
You share your best toys,
So please don't take
My best friend away.

 My Best Friend

Today I found a friend,
Who knew everything I felt.
She knew my every weakness,
And the problems I've been dealt.


She understood my wonders,
And listened to my dreams.
She listened to how I felt about life and love,
And knew what it all means.
Not once did she interrupt me,
Or tell me I was wrong.


She understood what I was going through,
And promised she'd stay long
I reached out to this friend
To show her that i care
To pull her close and let her know
How much I need her there
I went to hold her hand
To pull her a bit nearer


And realized that this perfect friend I found
Was nothing but my mirror.

LN

dinsdag 19 juli 2011

Go for it!

Why do humans always lack self confidence. Where is the faith. I thought We were thought to believe in ourselves and be focused.

If you want something go for it, if you love someone tell the person and if you're not feeling good about something don't do it. Most of these things leads us to bad decisions. I believe good decisions come from bad experiences and experiences come from bad decisions.

Doubts, what do I have to say about that. Have you noticed most doubts mostly turn to mistakes? Well, mine does. I stopped thinking for a while and he'll yeah got the mistakes running down like tap water. So, I decided to start thinking again.

I've been having one particular dream. Somewhere I wanna be because I believe hat place will be the best place for me and Kimora. My daily prayers has to include that dream, why because I believe I can make it. And lately I see myself getting closer to my dream ,I believe, that dream will eventually turn to reality.

Having faith and trust an easy task. But you make it easier, when you believe.

I believe! Do you?





LN.xxx

woensdag 13 juli 2011

No matter where you look, from movies to magazine ads, men are always being told that they need a woman to be happy. And while the company of a lady does have its boons, there are benefits to flying solo as well.

The single life is replete with liberties that you could not imagine. Here are the top 10 reasons you should consider taking a hiatus from the relationship arena and remain single.

 

Number 1

You can flirt as you please

 

Nothing is worse than that nagging voice in your head telling you that you shouldn't be talking to this killer brunette in front of you. Being single gives you the complete freedom to flirt with whomever you want, whenever you want. 

It also gives you the chance to sharpen your mojo so that, before you know it, you'll be the master player on your block. Since you're unattached, take this opportunity to master the art of seduction, and who knows what rewards you'll reap.


Number 2

You can be your own boss

Relationships are synonymous with compromise. You eventually have to sacrifice something you really like -- a football game or extra cheese on your pizza -- for the good of the pair. Use your single time to treat yourself a little more. In small doses, selfishness is good for the soul.

Being your own boss also means answering to no one. You went to a strip club? You got the scent of some woman's perfume all over your clothes? Enjoy not having to explain your actions.

Number 3

You can focus on your career

Life is a juggling act in which you have to keep the many elements aloft, paying equal attention to each one. But if you let one drop, you can channel your forces to the remaining parts. In the absence of a relationship, you'll have much more time to devote to your work. You can put in those extra hours on a project to impress your boss, and even take on something else. And you don't have to worry about sacrificing your love life, as you'll be single and vigorous.

Number 4

You can be spontaneous

Being single lets your break out of the numbing cycle of routine. Be daring while you can. Go on a fishing trip with your crew at the drop of a hat. Push it further and head out on a wild Spring Break surrounded by gorgeous college women. Not only will you be doing something out of the ordinary, you can do it without double-checking with someone else first. This is the height of freedom.


Number 5

You don't have to deal with another's personal habits


You used to cringe when she used your razor to shave her legs, and the scented candles she burned in every room made you sick. Now there's no irritating habits to tolerate. You can sleep peacefully without her snoring and hog all the blankets without a care in the world. You have no one to pick up after but yourself. Give your patience a well-deserved break and live in unflustered.

Number 6 

You have more time for activities

When you're single, you have no reason to sit around doing nothing. Want to harden your body at the gym? Play a new instrument? How about watch the Die Hard trilogy for the 11th time? Who's stopping you?

You can even use the time that you'd spend pleasing a demanding girlfriend to hang with the boys. After all, isn't neglecting your friends one of the biggest sacrifices of couplehood?

Look forward to being spontaneous, not having to answer to anyone and flirting like crazy

Number 7

You can control your finances
If you've ever been in a serious relationship, you know that, sooner or later, a good chunk of your budget goes into steady lady-maintenance costs. Bachelorhood gives you full financial freedom, and you never have to worry about paying for dinner or buying presents.

However, understand that this does not mean that you will save money -- on the contrary; you might be spending more on partying, buying drinks, dressing well, and so on. But at least you are the master of every single dollar you spend.

Number 8 

You can appreciate your independence

You can use your newfound free time for solitary fun, as well as self-improvement. Being single forces you to do things for yourself, like cook, do laundry and tidy up your pad. Being skilled at many things makes you a more complete, well-rounded person -- a great card to hold when you decide to reenter the dating market.

Furthermore, independence is a great trait, and women will likely notice that you're not the needy, clingy type.

Number 9

You can gain weight without worrying
Just as you can spend more time buffing up at the gym, you can also just chill and let yourself go for a little while. When you're not on the market, you don't have to worry about looking like an Adonis every day. Go ahead and wear that threadbare Metallica T-shirt and those holey boxers. Enjoy the pleasure of occasionally being a slob. Just don't go so far that you can't trim down in time for when you decide to start hunting.

Number 10

You don't have to tolerate moodiness & nagging
Fellas, how many times have you been in the doghouse because your woman was livid for reasons you still don't understand? Relish not being the target of her inexplicable mood swings, and the calm that comes when there's no nagging. When you wake up on the couch, you'll know it's because you chose to pass out there.

Dont be A copy!

Are you being yourself? Learn to recognize and accept the world and the people around us for what they are and not what we think they should be or how we can change them to thinking as we do.

Are you being yourself? We need to recognize and accept
the world and the people around us for what they are and not what we think they should be or how we can change them to thinking as we do. Now this can be very tough but sometimes we can make a difference, especially when we see injustice.

What I am saying is try to not beat your head against a wall trying to change someone to your way of thinking, just accept them for who they are.

To be happy you need to be satisfied with yourself: you need to know how to meet your needs.

maandag 20 juni 2011

Creamy

Whenever i hear the song I Love you by Psquare it reminds me just of one person. Everyone has a favorite song. What does your favorite song do to you and why?

I remember on my 22nd Birthday i was asked to stay home the whole day. I was told i was going to get a package. Was so excited i stayed by the doorbel the whole morning. The package got home around 10am and guess what it was.

A bunch of red and white roses. Bottles of wine and every bouquet had the lyrics of my favorite song.  Singing: You are my personal person, If i go do anything i go do am very well for you.. la la la..

Only a apecial friend makes your birthday worthy.

Since then Creamy has been in my life and i dont intend making him leave. A special friend deserve a special post on my blog. He's been there when there are downfalls and he keeps reminding me how beautiful and special i am. Kinda annoying hearing it everyday but still got maddest love for him hihiiihi.

Whenever im down, whenever i need any advices i turn to you. Not because i dont have anyone to turn to, its because you manage to make me feel special at in your own way.

Thank you for being there whenever there were are tears and reminding me how beautiful my smile is.
Your words motivate me. You promised never to make me fall that's why i pledge my true love for you. Wherever you are, whatever it takes i  L'oreal Neverson will be there for you..


LN.

dinsdag 14 juni 2011

Mistakes!!

So, ive been starring at my blog for the past 30min now. Didnt know what to write about, A good Fried JayRedman gave me hint.

I decided to typ down a few lines and see what would come out of it.

When i look back in my life. Mistakes got me where i am today. Mistakes made me a better person. People should be glad they make mistakes. Cause Mistakes improves the human soul.

Ok, now look at this way. You make bad decisions in Life and you're supposed to learn from it. Most people dont learn from it and repeat it again. What does that say of you. I sat down and thought all over again.

 Why dont we learn from our mistakes. Why do we still hang around people we clearly know they dont need us. Why do offer our heart to the wrong people and get it broken. Obvisouly, there is nothing humans can do about it but makes sure the mistake is not repeated.

Made a mistake before and your about to repeat it? I suggest you think twice about. Look back and remember how it felt like. There is nothing that would make you repeat it again. Although I've always said giving up is not in my dictionary, makes you a loser. And we all know everyone cant be a winner but you can definitely be an achiever.

Lets Think twice before we get into another sweet mistake.

LN.. XxXx

dinsdag 7 juni 2011

Kinky Sex Tips

1. Communicate- Don't take sex seriously – take your needs seriously – it's your responsibility to make things happen. Be open and honest with your partner. When experimenting, remember to let go and laugh about mishaps. Reflect and talk about how you can both improve on things next time while sharing the two-way street of kinky sexual pleasure!


2.Do a Dita von Teese
Leave the complicated stuff to the professionals and sexercise yourself first. Get naked, look in the mirror and enjoy what you see. Dance, sway, have fun. Experiment with lingerie, props, silk scarves… the list is endless. When ready for your close-up, revel in the power as you watch your audience become very hot and bothered.


3.Have an old Fashioned quickie..
You've read this a thousand times before, but it really does work. Give your man a good snog, grope like teenagers, and get him to bend you over the back of the sofa for a great entrance. Leaving trousers around the ankles, skirts bunched up around the waist, etc, adds to the raw sex factor.


4.The great Outdoor
Erotic, fun and intense, as long as you don't own a Mini. He sits in the passenger seat, while you ride in a forwards position towards the window, using the dash for support. Push and grind while he places his hands on your waist and hips, occasionally lifting you up slightly for some all-important visuals. Unless you want to be caught at it, approach with planning


5.Role play
Try 'the thief'. After being caught burgling your house 'the thief' throws you violently to the bed, telling you he'll hurt you if you don't allow him to have his wicked way. Be Little Red Riding Hood with some hot red lingerie and a blood-red cape. Your man pretends he's the Big Bad Wolf and eats you completely


6.The Three, four, five some
Fancy upping the stakes a little? Group sex can be a thrill-seeking, adventurous ride. But as with all of the kinky sex rules, it might be dangerous for a relationship if you and your partner don't communicate. Discuss it thoroughly beforehand and understand the boundaries and limits of the romp to come.


7.Viagra
There are plenty of variants to choose from on the market – including specific drugs for women (known under generic names) – just don't buy them online. Get advice from a pharmacist or doctor and then get yourselves ready for a non-stop banging session. Even insomniacs will sleep like babies when you've finally worn yourselves out




First date Tips for Ladies!!!

1.Ask him about him and let him talk- Everyone, and especially men, love to talk about themselves and their accomplishments. Use the first date to find out as much as you can about him... his accomplishments, his family, sports he likes, etc.


2.Never speak badly about your ex. While few will admit it this is a red flag... Most guys will assume that you'll say bad things about them should it "not work out". If he asks you about your ex, try to think of something nice to say. If you can't, tell him you'll discuss you ex later... you're more interested in getting to know him.


3.No sex on the first date. Why not? Because if you have sex on the first date (or before there’s a deep connection) – you better have fantastic sex the first time or they’re unlikely to stick around.


4.Don't drink too much.  A drunk woman is not classy or sexy.  Enough said


5. Dress to impress!
How you dress on a first date is crucial. Lets go through the basics.
- 1. Ladies that convey the message that they are sexy and seductive, without going over board, will usually be asked out again.  Men, on the other hand, will marry a girl who works at McDonalds if she’s beautiful, hot and sexy enough-in short, men want sex.
- 2. What are some of the messages you definitely DON'T want your outfit to say about you on a first date?
Ladies, yes, there is this myth going around that men date the "bad girls" but marry the "good girls", but don't be fooled! If a man does not find you sexually attractive, he's not going to date you, much less marry you.
- 3.. What types of colors are inviting and approachable? Which ones aren't?
Color can make a huge-and immediate-impact. Think about the feeling you want your date to have when they see you, and chose your colors to meet that desire. For instance, you probably want them to think you're sexy, not "earthy", so go  towards reds and brown or greens. Also keep in mind whether your date is during the day or at night. If the sun is out, blue is a great choice, but it may look dull at night.

5. What is the perfect first date outfit for the following?
Dinner
Women - Set yourself apart and wear a dress! So many women wear pants, which can be a hot look, but show your guy that you really care by donning the ultimate femine outfit. Pair it with a fabulous stiletto, and the perfect lipstick, (and sexy lingerie for later) and you're good to go.

Remember: your guy could probably care less about that Prada bag you just dropped big bucks for, but will really appreciate the time you put into picking out that perfect pair of matching bra and panties!

Movie
Women: Tight jeans, a flirty feminine shirt, and that same pair of stilettos from the dinner date.  Perfection!

Drinks after work
This is the one date where your work clothes are perfectly acceptable. Ladies might want to loose the jacket and put on an extra coat of lipstick.



There! With that you are all set to attack your first date with confidence!

Asante Twi Proverbs

1.Nea ɔforo dua pa na wɔpia no (The one who climbs a good tree is the one who is helped . If you set your eyes on a good course you will get helpers)
2.Adeε nyinaa dan osuahunu  ( Experience is the ebst teacher if you learn patiently you'll succeed)
3.Dua baako gye mframa a εbu (If one tree stands in the path of the wind, it falls. One person should not take on everybody’s responsibility)
4.Nea wɔnom hɔ no wɔnnware hɔ ( One should not bathe in the water others drink, Do what is right)
5.Ɛpare wo a, wosua nyansa ( One should learn from a near miss, If you come out of trouble you learn from it).
6.Honam panin ne etire  (The head is the crown of the human body, A person's glory is on his/her head)
7.Nea aba pεn na εsane ba (History repeats itself. Everything that happens has happenend before)



Best Collection of Chinese Proverbs

1.A bird does not sing because it has an answer. It sings because it has a song.
2.A child's life is like a piece of paper on which every person leaves a mark.
3.A diamond with a flaw is worth more than a pebble without imperfections.
4.A filthy mouth will not utter decent language.

5.Deep doubts, deep wisdom; small doubts, little wisdom.

6.Do good, reap good; do evil, reap evil.

7.Dig the well before you are thirsty.

8.Do not remove a fly from your friend's forehead with a hatchet.

9.Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.

10.Each generation will reap what the former generation has sown.

11.He who asks is a fool for five minutes, but he who does not ask remains a fool forever.

12.If heaven made him, earth can find some use for him.

maandag 6 juni 2011

Best Collection of Im Sorry Qoutes

1.Keep your words soft and tender because tomorrow you may have to eat them.  2.In some families, please is described as the magic word.  In our house, however, it was sorry. 
3.The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and for deeds left undone.
4.An apology is a good way to have the last word. 
5.An apology is the superglue of life.  It can repair just about anything.
6.It's easier to ask forgiveness than it is to get permission. 
7.Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. 
8.For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness.
9.Not the fastest horse can catch a word spoken in anger. 
10.True friends stab you in the front. 

Best Collection of Forgiveness Quotes

1.Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.
2.Never does the human soul appear so strong as when it forgoes revenge, and dares forgive an injury.
3.Forgive.  It doesn't erase their crime but why should you do the time.  Let go of resentment.
4.Without forgiveness life is governed by... an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation.
5.There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness. 
6.Forgiving is love's toughest work, and love's biggest risk.  If you twist it into something it was never meant to be, it can make you a doormat or an insufferable manipulator.  Forgiving seems almost unnatural.  Our sense of fairness tells us people should pay for the wrong they do.  But forgiving is love's power to break nature's rule.
7.The man who forgives is far stronger than the man who fights. 
8.It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.
9.If you can't forgive and forget, pick one. 
10.Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.

Best Collection of Hatred Quotes

1.Hating people is like burning down your own house to get rid of a rat.  ~Henry Emerson Fosdick
2.A Rattlesnake, if Cornered will become so angry it will bite itself.  That is exactly what the harboring of hate and resentment against others is - a biting of oneself.  We think we are harming others in holding these spites and hates, but the deeper harm is to ourselves.
3.I have decided to stick with love.  Hate is too great a burden to bear. 
4.We hate some persons because we do not know them; and will not know them because we hate them. 
5.If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself.  What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us.
6.It is to the credit of human nature, that, except where its selfishness is brought into play, it loves more readily than it hates.  Hatred, by a gradual and quiet process, will even be transformed to love, unless the change be impeded by a continually new irritation of the original feeling of hostility.
7.I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain.

Being Yourself

What wrong with being yourself. Be what you are and not pretending to be someone else. Everyone has their own predictions and aims on earth. I hate when people try to be who they arent.

God made us in his own way, so he intends us to live in our own way.

Some where born tall, Some were born born short. It doesnt mean his/her life is meaningless.

Woke up today with a thought. I just had to post it on my blog since that my only way of saying how i feel.

Everyone is different and everyone has a different aim on earth.. Stop being like others..


LN..xXxX

woensdag 1 juni 2011

Best Collection of Strong Male&Female Qoutes

1. A strong woman works out everyday to keep her body in shape BUT a woman of strength kneels everyday to keep her soul in shape"
2.
3.Ladies: Have respect for other women. Treat them, Speak about them, Address them like you want to be treated, spoken of and addressed.
4.Singleladies Just because the first date went well doesn't mean the relationship will. Pace yourself, get to know him.
5.SingleLadies Stay single as long as you need to be. Do not rush into another relationship, you will indeed get the same result.
6.Ladies: you have to love yourself before you attempt to love anyone. You gotta love how you look and be in love with who you are first.
7.Ladies: you have to love yourself before you attempt to love anyone. You gotta love how you look and be in love with who you are first.
8.Men: Stop doing the usual, do something unusual for your woman. Women like being surprised, do something nice to make her feel special.
9.Gentlemen: Being cocky is very ugly in the eyes of a good woman. Cockiness alone make them uninterested, they understand how cancerous it is
10.Her looking good or him being handsome wont make the relationship last. Looks doesnt produce love, it produces lust and make u feel in LOVE
11.Her looking good or him being handsome wont make the relationship last. Looks doesnt produce love, it produces lust and make u feel in LOVE
12.nothinghurtsmorethan than being in love with the wrong person !!!
13.nothinghurtsmorethan than being in love with the wrong person !!!
 
14.While single, focus on becoming a better u instead of focusing on finding someone better than ur ex. A better u will attract a better next.
15."You got to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because most of life's lessons are learned because of pain"
16.Confidence attracts the woman. Courage pursue the woman. Wisdom confirms whether something is there and Loyalty keeps the woman
17.Confidence attracts the woman. Courage pursue the woman. Wisdom confirms whether something is there and Loyalty keeps the woman
18.A real man/gentleman DONT need a lot of women's attention. Attention from his woman alone is enough for him !!!
19.We dont see too many Lamborghini ads because it's worth speaks for itself. Ladies if u are worth a lot, you dont have to advertise your body
20.We dont see too many Lamborghini ads because it's worth speaks for itself. Ladies if u are worth a lot, you dont have to advertise your body
Gents: Being lovey dovey with a woman shouldn't be considered too feminine. Don't act all serious and macho all the time. Women dont like it

What made you strong?

Had the chance to Love. Had the Chance to cry. Had the Chance to witness the other side of Life. It only makes you stronger. Life without experiences are worthless. The more and more you realized it was the best thing ever, the more stronger you become.

Why should women bare most pain? Its not written somewhere that women should take all the bullshit and pain, right?
Women are the most strongest creatures on earth. We were made to be strong, bold and proud.

Being a young mother made me strong. It made me know that i have a responsibility to cater for someone for the rest of my life. It aint an easy task but there is nothing impossible. Now tell me, what made you strong? What made you who you are today?

Ln xXx

maandag 16 mei 2011

The Doors In Your Life

 What if u finally think you've found the one. Things from the past hits u back in the head. What do you do? Do u keep believing its going to get better or just decide go to with a flow.

You see I'm making a point somewhere. The fact that memories still invade in your brains makes you think every door is the same. When a door closes, another door opens.

Every door is different. My doors are named. There is the insecure door which makes you doubt things even though it might be right. Do you really want to go through the door that would bring you hell and misery?

Preview of The Doors In your Life.

vrijdag 6 mei 2011

Believe in Ghosts. Part 2.

Years later and everyone left the house.
Ken had a girlfriend Myka. Myka worked as a nurse and Ken became an architect. Ken never revealed the story until one day.

Its midnight.

Ken was home alone, Myka had night shifts. He heard a voice. He woke up, looked around and saw no one. He went back to bed. This happened almost every night.
Whenever he told Myka about it, she calls him crazy.

Its Sunday, Every Sunday the brothers meet up at Dad's house and have dinner. Talk about what happened during the week.
After dinner,Ken asked his dad about the voices. Dad said: Whenever you hear a voice answer by saying" Yes Dad". Ken nodded and said OK.

A couple of Days later, he was home alone, heard a voice again and answered "yes dad".

The voice: My Son, i am here today giving you an assignment in life. You need to be smart and follow my guidelines. There is time involved so be fast.
Tomorrow i will guide you to an unknown place. You are going to get what belongs to you.

Ken sits up surprisingly and said, OK Dad.

its morning and Ken decided to tell Myka the whole story. Myka was shocked but glad she got to know the story behind it all. she asked ken, why are you telling me this now? Ken said because my dad just gave me an assignment and your going with me.
She looked at Ken and asked him ' Are you crazy'. which of your dad's. Uncle Grant or your real Dad? My real dad answered Ken. She got quiet and decided to follow his insanity.

They got in the car and he started driving. Myka asked him if he knew where to drive to. he was driving to an unknown destination but he knew his Dad was with him. After driving for hours, a voice said 'pull over'. He pulled over.
He saw a man in white and told Myka ' that's my father' She looked around and said your the only one in this insanity. i cant see him. They followed him.

They followed him and got to a second-hand shop. Dad disappeared. Ken asked the man in charge of the shop, if he had seen a man in white entering the shop. The man answered, No! Myka kept on telling him he's crazy but he knew he wasn't.

He started looking around and saw a green coat. He went closer.

The coat had his fathers name. He asked the man, where he got the coat and he said he found it. According to the man, it belonged to an old soldier. Ken paid for the coat and left the shop. they got in the care and he it got him thinking. why would my father lead me to his old coat.

He started searching in the coat and found and envelope. It contained a note with an address and a key. He started his car and started moving to the unknown address.

After a while they got there and opened the door. the house looked all messy and dusty. the house belonged to his parents. He saw pictures of his mom and dad, books and a whole lot more. Just across the room he saw another envelope.

The envelope contained his dad's insurance documents worth over millions. He stared at the papers and showed them to Myka. They all stood there shocked.

Suddenly he dropped a tear!

The next day he visited his dad at the cemetery and laid a flower for his guidance.

Ken and Myka got married a year later. Uncle grant led him to the altar. Ken was protected by his daddy since childhood.He led him to an unknown destination and gave him what he achieved while he was alive.
My point: I believe in my ghost. do you?  Guardian Angels do exist. Just give it a chance, everyone has a protecting angel.

Written by LNeverson...