Friends

When the first sex and city movie came out, I went with a couple of friends to watch it. There was a scene when Miranda gave Big an advice which led to Carrie being left at the altar. I looked at my friends and asked them "Can we ever be good friends like these four girls" They starred and nodded at me.

What’s my point? My Point is there is a difference between a friend and a FRIEND. (If you get what i mean). Everyone pretends in Life especially in friendships.

We believe more in our friends than we believe in ourselves. Others like me have been through a lot with friends. Some of them mostly betray you and you will be like I’m done with friends but the truth is u can never be done with friends. You just have to know how to deal with your friends.

There are three types of friends. 1. Hi-bye friends. 2. Regular Friends. 3. True, soul Friends.

It’s the True soul friends are the friends that mostly hurts us. These are the friends who can be trusted to be there for you whenever you need them, and they will go the extra mile for you.

Here are my tips:
1.Never tell many friends one story. Always tell a different story to everyone so when something happens you know where it came from.
2.Know your friends.
3.Things like boyfriend/husband matters shouldn’t be discussed. It should stay between you and your spouse.
4.You will definitely know when your friends envy you. When you notice it, BACK OFF.
5.Never do what others are doing. Peer pressure is NOT in your dictionary.
6.Have a friend who helps you in time of need. Not friends who forget you in time of need.
7.My Feelings never deceive me. When you have a bad feeling about someone you should think twice.
8.Never be friends with your friend’s friends. Known your friends
9.Knowing new people is good. But know your limit; remember you don’t know her/him that well. Take a while before you can trust.
10. Be yourself don’t change yourself to make new friends. That’s the worst thing you can do.

Feel Free to add more tips if have any.

How. Why. Who. When? Questions in Life

I have always had faith i could this. sometimes people just wish to bring you down. thats the reason why you should keep certain things to yourself. Get yourself a diary with a lock> start writing whats in you that u cant tell others. At the end of every week you should sit down and read it over with a cup of tea. You might cry over what you reading but read all you have written over a year and tell me if you will still be in that position.

Time is precious< to change is a Challenge. It doesnt go easier than we want it to be.

People go through a lot of things that drives them doing things no one will ever understand. We read the papers, watch tv and hear alot of amazing stories. We never know what made those people do what they were doing.
 I have a feeling i speak for many people who are in pain and dont want to show it. There is no need to hide how you feel or what you have done. You may be hated by many n loved by a few but what matters the most is God never rejects. How bad u are, how many hearts you have broken, how many lies you have told, How many guys uve slept with. If there can be a Change in your life. God provides that Change but all you need to do is seek!

I woke up from a dream 1 day. I heard a voice and the voice qouted" You are hated by many but not by me> What i think matters never shed a tear because you are hated by human"
There came a time i didnt want to step out my house,I felt the whole world had turned against me. My best friend was my dairy. I remember writing everything down, whenever i returned to read what i wrote after a week i would just burst out in tears and ask God 1 question 'WHY'??

HOW? WHY? WHO? WHEN?
How did this all get started, Why did it happen, Who is the cause of this all, When will it finally stop!!

These were the questions i keep asking myself. I needed answers and i finally got them. It took a while but i got them...

Yes i got the answers i had be looking for years in a short time.

My mirror says Im beautiful

A Preview of "My Mirror says Im beautiful'

There is a thing about humans, u can never tell whether they are speaking the truth or ur being deceived. They say stuff and you believe them but sometimes its better to listen to the inner YOU.
When you stand infront of your mirror when you put up your make up or dress up to impress you see what you believe in. Thats whats Life is about. The inner part can never deceive you cause thats who you are..
To change people's definition of appearances can only be occured when u surely have faith in you. Everyone was born with a destiny on earth. Some get good jobs while others get lousy jobs. Some where born wealthy while others struggle to get there. Anything thats worth having is worth fighting for. thats the same way everyone's mirror is different.. Believe in your mirror

Good Words

1.Just enjoy every moment of your life & make memories. Soon you'll realize how much you miss the day
2.When you say “I Love You” you are making a promise with someone else’s heart. Try to honor it, and never break it.
3. Speak out loud your good wishes and dreams. Words have power and God has ears.
4. Never get tired of doing little things for others. Sometimes those things occupy the biggest part of their hearts.
5.Only a STRONG people will admit their mistakes, laugh at them, never regret but learn from them
6. Never waste time on someone who doesn’t have time for you. Be with someone who will think you're worth their time.
7.You can love a lot of people in this world, but there’s only one you’ll love the most."
8.Love me or hate me? It's ur choice. If you love me, thank you. But if you hate me, thank you for make me stronger
9.Don’t be afraid of change, you may lose out on something good, but you might gain something even better
10. The best thing in life are unseen. That's why we close our eyes when we kiss, cry, and dream
11.Step 1: Forgive the ones that hurt you. Step 2: Forget the wrong that was done to you. Step 3: Move on
12.Goodbyes are hard. It may be harder for the person leaving, but it's always hardest for the one being left behind.
13.Its sad when you’re trying to make them smile, to give them all ur love. But still u’re just not enough
14.Difference between school and life. School; you're taught a lesson & then given a test. Life; you're given a test that teaches you a lesson
15.Guys will always be able to make girls cry. But if a girl can make a guy cry, she must really mean something to him
16.People may hate me & some will love me. But I love me & I dont want to pretend as someone just to impress people.
17.No one can be a better you than you. So quit trying to be someone else
18.People will get jealous when you become successful. Stay strong and don't let them bring you down
19.You can’t wait for life to hand you things. Give efforts. Because anything worth having is worth fighting for.
20.I would rather be single and be happy, than in a relationship that sucks the life out of you.

My favorite Friendship Quotes Collection!

1.Friends are God's way of taking care of us.
2.A friend is someone who reaches out for your hand...
and touches your heart.
3.Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet
when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.
4.Side by side or miles apart,
good friends are always
close to the heart.

5. A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg
even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.

6.You can buy many things, but there are 3 special things you can't buy: Love, life, and friendship

7. It's always easier to turn a friendship into love than to turn love into a friendship.
8. Real friends see your tears before they fall & see the pain in your eyes when you're trying to make a fake smile.
9. You can't make a million friends without getting a few haters. But remember, haters only hate the person they can't be.
10.Everybody needs a best friend to make them laugh when they think they won't be able to smile again.
11.Having a few number of true friends is always better than having a large number of friends that doesn't care.
12.Dear fake friends, Love me or leave me. No one forces you to stay here around me still!

My Best Female qoutes

1.Love isn't like a button which can you switch ON or OFF. Love needs time. Relationship needs works!

2.A real woman doesnt count how many guys she had in her life, but how many times she resisted guys for the man she really loves.

3.It's hard to completely trust someone after they hurt you. Even after they apologize & you forgive them, a small part of you will doubt.

4.Cheers to the person who broke my heart, because without them, I wouldn't be with the person I love today.

5.The average person tells 4 lies a day or 1460 a year; a total of 87,600 by the age of 60. And the most common lie is: I'm fine.

6.Just because you apologized doesn't mean my heart is magically fixed.

7.Isn't it ironic? We ignore those who adore us, adore those who ignore us, love those who hurt us, and hurt those who love us.

8.People are gonna talk about you especially when they envy you & your life. Let them. U affected their lives, not the other way around.

9.Some girls like bad boys because they think they can "fix" them. But they're not a broken car and you're no mechanic.

10.I miss being a kid. No one cared how you dressed, we were all friends, and you could be yourself. When did we turn so judgmental?

11.If you're single, make the best of it. It's not because you're not good enough for anyone, it means no one is good enough for you.

12. When something bad happens, you have 3 choices: You can either let it define you, destroy you, or let it strengthen you.

13.There's a hell in every hello. Be careful. There's something good in every goodbye. Be grateful.

14.Never chase them. Quickly replace them. Mistakes? Nah, I don't retrace them, I just move on and quickly erase them :)

15.I swore I needed you. Well consider them lies because baby here I am without you and I survived.

16.We're not perfect. Any of us. We make mistakes, we screw up but eventually we forgive and move forward.

17.It's funny how I'm good at giving advice to others, but when it comes to helping myself, I don't know what to do.

18.When you think you're not happy with your life, always think that someone is happy simply because you exist.

19.Afraid. That's what we always are. Afraid to love, afraid to share, afraid to open up, afraid to care. That's life.

20.If you ignore me, I will ignore you. If you don't start the conversation, we won't talk. If you don't put in the effort, why should I?

My Favorite Love poems

The Meaning
To love is to share life together
to build special plans just for two
to work side by side
and then smile with pride
as one by one, dreams all come true.

To love is to help and encourage
with smiles and sincere words of praise
to take time to share
to listen and care
in tender, affectionate ways.

To love is to have someone special
one who you can always depend
to be there through the years
sharing laughter and tears
as a partner, a lover, a friend.

To love is to make special memories
of moments you love to recall
of all the good things
that sharing life brings
love is the greatest of all.

I've learned the full meaning
of sharing and caring
and having my dreams all come true;
I've learned the full meaning
of being in love
by being and loving with you.