Friends

When the first sex and city movie came out, I went with a couple of friends to watch it. There was a scene when Miranda gave Big an advice which led to Carrie being left at the altar. I looked at my friends and asked them "Can we ever be good friends like these four girls" They starred and nodded at me.

What’s my point? My Point is there is a difference between a friend and a FRIEND. (If you get what i mean). Everyone pretends in Life especially in friendships.

We believe more in our friends than we believe in ourselves. Others like me have been through a lot with friends. Some of them mostly betray you and you will be like I’m done with friends but the truth is u can never be done with friends. You just have to know how to deal with your friends.

There are three types of friends. 1. Hi-bye friends. 2. Regular Friends. 3. True, soul Friends.

It’s the True soul friends are the friends that mostly hurts us. These are the friends who can be trusted to be there for you whenever you need them, and they will go the extra mile for you.

Here are my tips:
1.Never tell many friends one story. Always tell a different story to everyone so when something happens you know where it came from.
2.Know your friends.
3.Things like boyfriend/husband matters shouldn’t be discussed. It should stay between you and your spouse.
4.You will definitely know when your friends envy you. When you notice it, BACK OFF.
5.Never do what others are doing. Peer pressure is NOT in your dictionary.
6.Have a friend who helps you in time of need. Not friends who forget you in time of need.
7.My Feelings never deceive me. When you have a bad feeling about someone you should think twice.
8.Never be friends with your friend’s friends. Known your friends
9.Knowing new people is good. But know your limit; remember you don’t know her/him that well. Take a while before you can trust.
10. Be yourself don’t change yourself to make new friends. That’s the worst thing you can do.

Feel Free to add more tips if have any.