You Just have to Call on Me!

You just call out my name,

And you know where ever I am

I'll come running, running

To see you again...

Winter, Spring, Summer or Fall

All you have to do is call

And I'll be there...

You've got a friend,

Ain't it good to know ?

You've got a Friend.

Best Friend

You are my best friend,
My very best friend,
You make me happy,
Everyday,
You share your great snacks,
You share your best toys,
So please don't take
My best friend away.

 My Best Friend

Today I found a friend,
Who knew everything I felt.
She knew my every weakness,
And the problems I've been dealt.

She understood my wonders,
And listened to my dreams.
She listened to how I felt about life and love,
And knew what it all means.

Not once did she interrupt me,
Or tell me I was wrong.

She understood what I was going through,
And promised she'd stay long

I reached out to this friend
To show her that i care
To pull her close and let her know
How much I need her there

I went to hold her hand
To pull her a bit nearer

And realized that this perfect friend I found
Was nothing but my mirror.

LN

Go for it!

Why do humans always lack self confidence. Where is the faith. I thought We were thought to believe in ourselves and be focused.

If you want something go for it, if you love someone tell the person and if you're not feeling good about something don't do it. Most of these things leads us to bad decisions. I believe good decisions come from bad experiences and experiences come from bad decisions.

Doubts, what do I have to say about that. Have you noticed most doubts mostly turn to mistakes? Well, mine does. I stopped thinking for a while and he'll yeah got the mistakes running down like tap water. So, I decided to start thinking again.

I've been having one particular dream. Somewhere I wanna be because I believe hat place will be the best place for me and Kimora. My daily prayers has to include that dream, why because I believe I can make it. And lately I see myself getting closer to my dream ,I believe, that dream will eventually turn to reality.

Having faith and trust an easy task. But you make it easier, when you believe.

I believe! Do you?





LN.xxx

No matter where you look, from movies to magazine ads, men are always being told that they need a woman to be happy. And while the company of a lady does have its boons, there are benefits to flying solo as well.

The single life is replete with liberties that you could not imagine. Here are the top 10 reasons you should consider taking a hiatus from the relationship arena and remain single.

 

Number 1

You can flirt as you please

 

Nothing is worse than that nagging voice in your head telling you that you shouldn't be talking to this killer brunette in front of you. Being single gives you the complete freedom to flirt with whomever you want, whenever you want. 

It also gives you the chance to sharpen your mojo so that, before you know it, you'll be the master player on your block. Since you're unattached, take this opportunity to master the art of seduction, and who knows what rewards you'll reap.

Number 2

You can be your own boss

Relationships are synonymous with compromise. You eventually have to sacrifice something you really like -- a football game or extra cheese on your pizza -- for the good of the pair. Use your single time to treat yourself a little more. In small doses, selfishness is good for the soul.

Being your own boss also means answering to no one. You went to a strip club? You got the scent of some woman's perfume all over your clothes? Enjoy not having to explain your actions.

Number 3

You can focus on your career

Life is a juggling act in which you have to keep the many elements aloft, paying equal attention to each one. But if you let one drop, you can channel your forces to the remaining parts. In the absence of a relationship, you'll have much more time to devote to your work. You can put in those extra hours on a project to impress your boss, and even take on something else. And you don't have to worry about sacrificing your love life, as you'll be single and vigorous.

Number 4

You can be spontaneous

Being single lets your break out of the numbing cycle of routine. Be daring while you can. Go on a fishing trip with your crew at the drop of a hat. Push it further and head out on a wild Spring Break surrounded by gorgeous college women. Not only will you be doing something out of the ordinary, you can do it without double-checking with someone else first. This is the height of freedom.

Number 5

You don't have to deal with another's personal habits

You used to cringe when she used your razor to shave her legs, and the scented candles she burned in every room made you sick. Now there's no irritating habits to tolerate. You can sleep peacefully without her snoring and hog all the blankets without a care in the world. You have no one to pick up after but yourself. Give your patience a well-deserved break and live in unflustered.

Number 6 

You have more time for activities

When you're single, you have no reason to sit around doing nothing. Want to harden your body at the gym? Play a new instrument? How about watch the Die Hard trilogy for the 11th time? Who's stopping you?

You can even use the time that you'd spend pleasing a demanding girlfriend to hang with the boys. After all, isn't neglecting your friends one of the biggest sacrifices of couplehood?

Look forward to being spontaneous, not having to answer to anyone and flirting like crazy

Number 7

You can control your finances
If you've ever been in a serious relationship, you know that, sooner or later, a good chunk of your budget goes into steady lady-maintenance costs. Bachelorhood gives you full financial freedom, and you never have to worry about paying for dinner or buying presents.

However, understand that this does not mean that you will save money -- on the contrary; you might be spending more on partying, buying drinks, dressing well, and so on. But at least you are the master of every single dollar you spend.

Number 8 

You can appreciate your independence

You can use your newfound free time for solitary fun, as well as self-improvement. Being single forces you to do things for yourself, like cook, do laundry and tidy up your pad. Being skilled at many things makes you a more complete, well-rounded person -- a great card to hold when you decide to reenter the dating market.

Furthermore, independence is a great trait, and women will likely notice that you're not the needy, clingy type.

Number 9

You can gain weight without worrying
Just as you can spend more time buffing up at the gym, you can also just chill and let yourself go for a little while. When you're not on the market, you don't have to worry about looking like an Adonis every day. Go ahead and wear that threadbare Metallica T-shirt and those holey boxers. Enjoy the pleasure of occasionally being a slob. Just don't go so far that you can't trim down in time for when you decide to start hunting.

Number 10

You don't have to tolerate moodiness & nagging
Fellas, how many times have you been in the doghouse because your woman was livid for reasons you still don't understand? Relish not being the target of her inexplicable mood swings, and the calm that comes when there's no nagging. When you wake up on the couch, you'll know it's because you chose to pass out there.

Dont be A copy!

Are you being yourself? Learn to recognize and accept the world and the people around us for what they are and not what we think they should be or how we can change them to thinking as we do.

Are you being yourself? We need to recognize and accept
the world and the people around us for what they are and not what we think they should be or how we can change them to thinking as we do. Now this can be very tough but sometimes we can make a difference, especially when we see injustice.

What I am saying is try to not beat your head against a wall trying to change someone to your way of thinking, just accept them for who they are.

To be happy you need to be satisfied with yourself: you need to know how to meet your needs.

Live it! Its yours

Creamy

Whenever i hear the song I Love you by Psquare it reminds me just of one person. Everyone has a favorite song. What does your favorite song do to you and why?

I remember on my 22nd Birthday i was asked to stay home the whole day. I was told i was going to get a package. Was so excited i stayed by the doorbel the whole morning. The package got home around 10am and guess what it was.

A bunch of red and white roses. Bottles of wine and every bouquet had the lyrics of my favorite song.  Singing: You are my personal person, If i go do anything i go do am very well for you.. la la la..

Only a apecial friend makes your birthday worthy.

Since then Creamy has been in my life and i dont intend making him leave. A special friend deserve a special post on my blog. He's been there when there are downfalls and he keeps reminding me how beautiful and special i am. Kinda annoying hearing it everyday but still got maddest love for him hihiiihi.

Whenever im down, whenever i need any advices i turn to you. Not because i dont have anyone to turn to, its because you manage to make me feel special at in your own way.

Thank you for being there whenever there were are tears and reminding me how beautiful my smile is.
Your words motivate me. You promised never to make me fall that's why i pledge my true love for you. Wherever you are, whatever it takes i  L'oreal Neverson will be there for you..


LN.

Mistakes!!

So, ive been starring at my blog for the past 30min now. Didnt know what to write about, A good Fried JayRedman gave me hint.

I decided to typ down a few lines and see what would come out of it.

When i look back in my life. Mistakes got me where i am today. Mistakes made me a better person. People should be glad they make mistakes. Cause Mistakes improves the human soul.

Ok, now look at this way. You make bad decisions in Life and you're supposed to learn from it. Most people dont learn from it and repeat it again. What does that say of you. I sat down and thought all over again.

 Why dont we learn from our mistakes. Why do we still hang around people we clearly know they dont need us. Why do offer our heart to the wrong people and get it broken. Obvisouly, there is nothing humans can do about it but makes sure the mistake is not repeated.

Made a mistake before and your about to repeat it? I suggest you think twice about. Look back and remember how it felt like. There is nothing that would make you repeat it again. Although I've always said giving up is not in my dictionary, makes you a loser. And we all know everyone cant be a winner but you can definitely be an achiever.

Lets Think twice before we get into another sweet mistake.

LN.. XxXx

Kinky Sex Tips

1. Communicate- Don't take sex seriously – take your needs seriously – it's your responsibility to make things happen. Be open and honest with your partner. When experimenting, remember to let go and laugh about mishaps. Reflect and talk about how you can both improve on things next time while sharing the two-way street of kinky sexual pleasure!


2.Do a Dita von Teese
Leave the complicated stuff to the professionals and sexercise yourself first. Get naked, look in the mirror and enjoy what you see. Dance, sway, have fun. Experiment with lingerie, props, silk scarves… the list is endless. When ready for your close-up, revel in the power as you watch your audience become very hot and bothered.


3.Have an old Fashioned quickie..
You've read this a thousand times before, but it really does work. Give your man a good snog, grope like teenagers, and get him to bend you over the back of the sofa for a great entrance. Leaving trousers around the ankles, skirts bunched up around the waist, etc, adds to the raw sex factor.


4.The great Outdoor
Erotic, fun and intense, as long as you don't own a Mini. He sits in the passenger seat, while you ride in a forwards position towards the window, using the dash for support. Push and grind while he places his hands on your waist and hips, occasionally lifting you up slightly for some all-important visuals. Unless you want to be caught at it, approach with planning


5.Role play
Try 'the thief'. After being caught burgling your house 'the thief' throws you violently to the bed, telling you he'll hurt you if you don't allow him to have his wicked way. Be Little Red Riding Hood with some hot red lingerie and a blood-red cape. Your man pretends he's the Big Bad Wolf and eats you completely


6.The Three, four, five some
Fancy upping the stakes a little? Group sex can be a thrill-seeking, adventurous ride. But as with all of the kinky sex rules, it might be dangerous for a relationship if you and your partner don't communicate. Discuss it thoroughly beforehand and understand the boundaries and limits of the romp to come.


7.Viagra
There are plenty of variants to choose from on the market – including specific drugs for women (known under generic names) – just don't buy them online. Get advice from a pharmacist or doctor and then get yourselves ready for a non-stop banging session. Even insomniacs will sleep like babies when you've finally worn yourselves out

First date Tips for Ladies!!!

1.Ask him about him and let him talk- Everyone, and especially men, love to talk about themselves and their accomplishments. Use the first date to find out as much as you can about him... his accomplishments, his family, sports he likes, etc.


2.Never speak badly about your ex. While few will admit it this is a red flag... Most guys will assume that you'll say bad things about them should it "not work out". If he asks you about your ex, try to think of something nice to say. If you can't, tell him you'll discuss you ex later... you're more interested in getting to know him.


3.No sex on the first date. Why not? Because if you have sex on the first date (or before there’s a deep connection) – you better have fantastic sex the first time or they’re unlikely to stick around.


4.Don't drink too much.  A drunk woman is not classy or sexy.  Enough said


5. Dress to impress!
How you dress on a first date is crucial. Lets go through the basics.
- 1. Ladies that convey the message that they are sexy and seductive, without going over board, will usually be asked out again.  Men, on the other hand, will marry a girl who works at McDonalds if she’s beautiful, hot and sexy enough-in short, men want sex.
- 2. What are some of the messages you definitely DON'T want your outfit to say about you on a first date?
Ladies, yes, there is this myth going around that men date the "bad girls" but marry the "good girls", but don't be fooled! If a man does not find you sexually attractive, he's not going to date you, much less marry you.

- 3.. What types of colors are inviting and approachable? Which ones aren't?
Color can make a huge-and immediate-impact. Think about the feeling you want your date to have when they see you, and chose your colors to meet that desire. For instance, you probably want them to think you're sexy, not "earthy", so go  towards reds and brown or greens. Also keep in mind whether your date is during the day or at night. If the sun is out, blue is a great choice, but it may look dull at night.

5. What is the perfect first date outfit for the following?

Dinner
Women - Set yourself apart and wear a dress! So many women wear pants, which can be a hot look, but show your guy that you really care by donning the ultimate femine outfit. Pair it with a fabulous stiletto, and the perfect lipstick, (and sexy lingerie for later) and you're good to go.

Remember: your guy could probably care less about that Prada bag you just dropped big bucks for, but will really appreciate the time you put into picking out that perfect pair of matching bra and panties!

Movie
Women: Tight jeans, a flirty feminine shirt, and that same pair of stilettos from the dinner date.  Perfection!

Drinks after work
This is the one date where your work clothes are perfectly acceptable. Ladies might want to loose the jacket and put on an extra coat of lipstick.

There! With that you are all set to attack your first date with confidence!

Asante Twi Proverbs

1.Nea ɔforo dua pa na wɔpia no (The one who climbs a good tree is the one who is helped . If you set your eyes on a good course you will get helpers)
2.Adeε nyinaa dan osuahunu  ( Experience is the ebst teacher if you learn patiently you'll succeed)
3.Dua baako gye mframa a εbu (If one tree stands in the path of the wind, it falls. One person should not take on everybody’s responsibility)
4.Nea wɔnom hɔ no wɔnnware hɔ ( One should not bathe in the water others drink, Do what is right)
5.Ɛpare wo a, wosua nyansa ( One should learn from a near miss, If you come out of trouble you learn from it).
6.Honam panin ne etire  (The head is the crown of the human body, A person's glory is on his/her head)
7.Nea aba pεn na εsane ba (History repeats itself. Everything that happens has happenend before)

Best Collection of Chinese Proverbs

1.A bird does not sing because it has an answer. It sings because it has a song.
2.A child's life is like a piece of paper on which every person leaves a mark.
3.A diamond with a flaw is worth more than a pebble without imperfections.

4.A filthy mouth will not utter decent language.

5.Deep doubts, deep wisdom; small doubts, little wisdom.

6.Do good, reap good; do evil, reap evil.

7.Dig the well before you are thirsty.

8.Do not remove a fly from your friend's forehead with a hatchet.

9.Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.

10.Each generation will reap what the former generation has sown.

11.He who asks is a fool for five minutes, but he who does not ask remains a fool forever.

12.If heaven made him, earth can find some use for him.

Best Collection of Im Sorry Qoutes

1.Keep your words soft and tender because tomorrow you may have to eat them.  2.In some families, please is described as the magic word.  In our house, however, it was sorry. 
3.The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and for deeds left undone.
4.An apology is a good way to have the last word. 
5.An apology is the superglue of life.  It can repair just about anything.
6.It's easier to ask forgiveness than it is to get permission. 
7.Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. 
8.For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness.
9.Not the fastest horse can catch a word spoken in anger. 
10.True friends stab you in the front. 

Best Collection of Forgiveness Quotes

1.Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.
2.Never does the human soul appear so strong as when it forgoes revenge, and dares forgive an injury.
3.Forgive.  It doesn't erase their crime but why should you do the time.  Let go of resentment.
4.Without forgiveness life is governed by... an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation.
5.There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness. 
6.Forgiving is love's toughest work, and love's biggest risk.  If you twist it into something it was never meant to be, it can make you a doormat or an insufferable manipulator.  Forgiving seems almost unnatural.  Our sense of fairness tells us people should pay for the wrong they do.  But forgiving is love's power to break nature's rule.
7.The man who forgives is far stronger than the man who fights. 
8.It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.
9.If you can't forgive and forget, pick one. 
10.Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.

Best Collection of Hatred Quotes

1.Hating people is like burning down your own house to get rid of a rat.  ~Henry Emerson Fosdick
2.A Rattlesnake, if Cornered will become so angry it will bite itself.  That is exactly what the harboring of hate and resentment against others is - a biting of oneself.  We think we are harming others in holding these spites and hates, but the deeper harm is to ourselves.
3.I have decided to stick with love.  Hate is too great a burden to bear. 
4.We hate some persons because we do not know them; and will not know them because we hate them. 
5.If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself.  What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us.
6.It is to the credit of human nature, that, except where its selfishness is brought into play, it loves more readily than it hates.  Hatred, by a gradual and quiet process, will even be transformed to love, unless the change be impeded by a continually new irritation of the original feeling of hostility.
7.I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain.

Being Yourself

What wrong with being yourself. Be what you are and not pretending to be someone else. Everyone has their own predictions and aims on earth. I hate when people try to be who they arent.

God made us in his own way, so he intends us to live in our own way.

Some where born tall, Some were born born short. It doesnt mean his/her life is meaningless.

Woke up today with a thought. I just had to post it on my blog since that my only way of saying how i feel.

Everyone is different and everyone has a different aim on earth.. Stop being like others..


LN..xXxX

Best Collection of Strong Male&Female Qoutes

1. A strong woman works out everyday to keep her body in shape BUT a woman of strength kneels everyday to keep her soul in shape"
2.
3.Ladies: Have respect for other women. Treat them, Speak about them, Address them like you want to be treated, spoken of and addressed.
4.Singleladies Just because the first date went well doesn't mean the relationship will. Pace yourself, get to know him.
5.SingleLadies Stay single as long as you need to be. Do not rush into another relationship, you will indeed get the same result.
6.Ladies: you have to love yourself before you attempt to love anyone. You gotta love how you look and be in love with who you are first.
7.Ladies: you have to love yourself before you attempt to love anyone. You gotta love how you look and be in love with who you are first.
8.Men: Stop doing the usual, do something unusual for your woman. Women like being surprised, do something nice to make her feel special.
9.Gentlemen: Being cocky is very ugly in the eyes of a good woman. Cockiness alone make them uninterested, they understand how cancerous it is
10.Her looking good or him being handsome wont make the relationship last. Looks doesnt produce love, it produces lust and make u feel in LOVE
11.Her looking good or him being handsome wont make the relationship last. Looks doesnt produce love, it produces lust and make u feel in LOVE
12.nothinghurtsmorethan than being in love with the wrong person !!!
13.nothinghurtsmorethan than being in love with the wrong person !!!
　
14.While single, focus on becoming a better u instead of focusing on finding someone better than ur ex. A better u will attract a better next.
15."You got to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because most of life's lessons are learned because of pain"
16.Confidence attracts the woman. Courage pursue the woman. Wisdom confirms whether something is there and Loyalty keeps the woman
17.Confidence attracts the woman. Courage pursue the woman. Wisdom confirms whether something is there and Loyalty keeps the woman
18.A real man/gentleman DONT need a lot of women's attention. Attention from his woman alone is enough for him !!!
19.We dont see too many Lamborghini ads because it's worth speaks for itself. Ladies if u are worth a lot, you dont have to advertise your body
20.We dont see too many Lamborghini ads because it's worth speaks for itself. Ladies if u are worth a lot, you dont have to advertise your bodyGents: Being lovey dovey with a woman shouldn't be considered too feminine. Don't act all serious and macho all the time. Women dont like it

What made you strong?

Had the chance to Love. Had the Chance to cry. Had the Chance to witness the other side of Life. It only makes you stronger. Life without experiences are worthless. The more and more you realized it was the best thing ever, the more stronger you become.

Why should women bare most pain? Its not written somewhere that women should take all the bullshit and pain, right?
Women are the most strongest creatures on earth. We were made to be strong, bold and proud.

Being a young mother made me strong. It made me know that i have a responsibility to cater for someone for the rest of my life. It aint an easy task but there is nothing impossible. Now tell me, what made you strong? What made you who you are today?

Ln xXx

The Doors In Your Life

 What if u finally think you've found the one. Things from the past hits u back in the head. What do you do? Do u keep believing its going to get better or just decide go to with a flow.

You see I'm making a point somewhere. The fact that memories still invade in your brains makes you think every door is the same. When a door closes, another door opens.

Every door is different. My doors are named. There is the insecure door which makes you doubt things even though it might be right. Do you really want to go through the door that would bring you hell and misery?

Preview of The Doors In your Life.

Believe in Ghosts. Part 2.

Years later and everyone left the house.
Ken had a girlfriend Myka. Myka worked as a nurse and Ken became an architect. Ken never revealed the story until one day.

Its midnight.

Ken was home alone, Myka had night shifts. He heard a voice. He woke up, looked around and saw no one. He went back to bed. This happened almost every night.
Whenever he told Myka about it, she calls him crazy.

Its Sunday, Every Sunday the brothers meet up at Dad's house and have dinner. Talk about what happened during the week.
After dinner,Ken asked his dad about the voices. Dad said: Whenever you hear a voice answer by saying" Yes Dad". Ken nodded and said OK.

A couple of Days later, he was home alone, heard a voice again and answered "yes dad".

The voice: My Son, i am here today giving you an assignment in life. You need to be smart and follow my guidelines. There is time involved so be fast.
Tomorrow i will guide you to an unknown place. You are going to get what belongs to you.

Ken sits up surprisingly and said, OK Dad.

its morning and Ken decided to tell Myka the whole story. Myka was shocked but glad she got to know the story behind it all. she asked ken, why are you telling me this now? Ken said because my dad just gave me an assignment and your going with me.
She looked at Ken and asked him ' Are you crazy'. which of your dad's. Uncle Grant or your real Dad? My real dad answered Ken. She got quiet and decided to follow his insanity.

They got in the car and he started driving. Myka asked him if he knew where to drive to. he was driving to an unknown destination but he knew his Dad was with him. After driving for hours, a voice said 'pull over'. He pulled over.
He saw a man in white and told Myka ' that's my father' She looked around and said your the only one in this insanity. i cant see him. They followed him.

They followed him and got to a second-hand shop. Dad disappeared. Ken asked the man in charge of the shop, if he had seen a man in white entering the shop. The man answered, No! Myka kept on telling him he's crazy but he knew he wasn't.

He started looking around and saw a green coat. He went closer.

The coat had his fathers name. He asked the man, where he got the coat and he said he found it. According to the man, it belonged to an old soldier. Ken paid for the coat and left the shop. they got in the care and he it got him thinking. why would my father lead me to his old coat.

He started searching in the coat and found and envelope. It contained a note with an address and a key. He started his car and started moving to the unknown address.

After a while they got there and opened the door. the house looked all messy and dusty. the house belonged to his parents. He saw pictures of his mom and dad, books and a whole lot more. Just across the room he saw another envelope.

The envelope contained his dad's insurance documents worth over millions. He stared at the papers and showed them to Myka. They all stood there shocked.

Suddenly he dropped a tear!

The next day he visited his dad at the cemetery and laid a flower for his guidance.

Ken and Myka got married a year later. Uncle grant led him to the altar. Ken was protected by his daddy since childhood.He led him to an unknown destination and gave him what he achieved while he was alive.
My point: I believe in my ghost. do you?  Guardian Angels do exist. Just give it a chance, everyone has a protecting angel.

Written by LNeverson...

Believe in Ghosts!!

Ken lost his dad at a very young age. he died serving his country. Uncle Grant took Ken in but never told Ken the truth behind it all. His uncle had three kids Daniel, Derrick and Thomas. Ken had a great bond with them.

Daniel and Derrick were twins and much older. They were the meanest guys you can ever imagine. They always bullied Thomas and Ken because they were the youngest.
Thomas was ken's favorite. they did everything together. One thing, Uncle never did was treat Ken differently. he treated them all the same, showed them love equally and punished them fairly.

On Ken's 20th birthday he got woken up by a voice saying" Happy birthday Son". He woke up looked around and didn't see anyone. He went down stairs and Uncle Grant was reading his daily papers. He looked weird and asked, Ken:Dad, where you in my room? Dad: No Son, Happy Birthday! Get ready i have a surprise for you!.

Ken ignored the voice, went up stairs and got ready. They got in the car on their way to the surprise.Uncle Grant asked ken a very weird question. Uncle Grant: Ken, would you like to join the army? Ken: No, Dad i want to be a architect just like you. Ken got amazed by uncle's question. They got to their destination, a museum! What are we doing here Dad? i thought you had a birthday surprise for me. This is your surprise, uncle answered. There is someone i want you to meet.

They got in and Ken realized its an Army Museum.Why did my Dad, bring me to a museum on my birthday? He was confused. At the entrance he saw a picture of Uncle Grant. He never knew Uncle Grant was in an army. He started asking questions, but was asked to save his questions for later.
They got to a wall and the wall had pictures of Uncle Grant and his brother. Ken never knew Uncle had a brother. Where is your brother now Dad and how come i never knew?
He got no answer!

Uncle grant had tears in his eyes. Son: I'm going to tell you a secret.

I was asked to tell you the truth when your old enough to understand. The voice you heard today wasn't me. It was your father. Ken looked at his Uncle very surprisingly. But you weren't in my room, asked Ken. Yes my son. That's because I'm your Uncle. The brother you see on the wall, is your father.
Your dad and i, served the country with all our lives. Your dad saved my life during the war. that's why i couldn't see you go to a Forster care. i had to do something. i left the army because of guilt and took you in. Your dad's last words were "Be his dad".

Ken was out of words. What about my mother? Your mother is alive. She sends you letters and calls you all the time. WHAT!!!! Aunt Lisa? Ken has an angry look on his face
Oh My God! Why am i not living with her? I begged her to take you, i wanted to be the father you didn't have. I wanted to "Be your Dad". Ken gave Uncle Grant the biggest hug ever and said, Its OK!.

They got in the car on their way home, and Ken asked: Dad, What do i call you now? Do i tell the others? Uncle Grant: No Son, Its a Secret!

My Best Collection Of Maya Angelou

1.I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
2.Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.
3.All great achievements require time
4.One must know not just how to accept a gift, but with what grace to share it.
5.It is time for parents to teach young people early on that in diversity there is beauty and there is strength.
6.Jealousy in romance is like salt in food. A little can enhance the savor, but too much can spoil the pleasure and, under certain circumstances, can be life-threatening
7.The horizon leans forward, offering you space to place new steps of change
8.I don't believe an accident of birth makes people sisters or brothers. It makes them siblings, gives them mutuality of parentage. Sisterhood and brotherhood is a condition people have to work at.
9.Words mean more than what is set down on paper. It takes the human voice to infuse them with shades of deeper meaning
10.When it looked like the sun wasn't going to shine any more, there's a rainbow in the clouds.

Best Collection of Move-On Tips

1.Sometimes the cards we are dealt are not always fair. However you must keep smiling & moving on
2.Moving on, is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard
3.To be able to move on, one has to learn to forgive not only the person (or people) who have done one wrong but also oneself
4.Life is about making the right decisions and moving on
5.You are responsible for your life. You can't keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on
6.Take a second out to think about this: in your life you search and search for the right person for you. Every time you break up with someone you get one step closer to that person. You should look at moving on as getting closer to meeting the one
7.Moving On has allowed me to know who I am and to be present in all that I do. I take this forward in my work and in my personal relationships. It is a powerful program and I highly recommend it to anyone wanting to move on with their life.
8.Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means moving on. It is one of the hardest things a person can do. Starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. We feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. But as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. We are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. It means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so.
9.Any change, any loss, does not make us victims. Others can shake you, surprise you, disappoint you, but they can't prevent you from acting, from taking the situation you're presented with and moving on. No matter where you are in life, no matter what your situation, you can always do something. You always have a choice and the choice can be power.
10.If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.

I Need A Man

I need a Man.
I need a man that stays will stay by my side when I need someone to talk to.
I need a man to tell me the word LOVE every morning.
I need a man that will make me feel like a woman.
I need a man that just pops up with flowers, candies and gifts.
I need a man that remembers my birthday.
I need a man that remembers my favorite dish.
I need a man that remembers my shoe size and knows my favorite color.
I need a man that doesn’t only think about TODAY. You need to think about TOMORROW.
I need a man that loves me for who I am.
I need a man to move along with my family.
I need a man that doesn’t need a car to be on top.
I need a man who loves kids.
I need a man that treasures everything I do for him.
I need a man who thinks about me before he goes to bed and thinks of me when he wakes up.
I need a man that takes my breath away.
I need a man that makes me cry (tears of joy)
I need a man that understands what I’m worth.
I need a man who can make me happy.
I need a man who makes me smile.

On top of this all, I want a man that has a heart and understand the simplicity of Love. These are the reasons we search.. We find guys with some of these features and some with none. You cannot always get what you want. This is what most women want in their future guys. We can’t have it all. Appreciate what you have.

Whenever - A poem i wrote for Resi Arthur& Laurencia Darkwah

Whenever i had to shed tears, you were there to wipe them off.
Whenever i needed someone to talk to, you were there to talk to me.
Whenever guys took advantages, you were there to insult me.
Whenever i moved with the wrong people, you were there to set me straight.
Whenever i had a badhairday or a silly outfit, you were there to laugh.
Whenever  was broke, you always gave me money if you had some.... lol.
Whenever i cooked and wasnt tasty, you were there to yell at me.
Whenever i said something wrong , you were there to correct me.\par
Whenever i felt lonely, you were there to hold me tight and hug the hell out of me.
Whenever people came between us, we showed them we are one.
Whenever there is an issue, we stay strong no matter what.

On top of this all. You are always there whenever and wherever i need you. I LOVE YOU..

Specially written for Resi Arthur n LedonneGlow.

SKY!!!

When you are down
And you want to get high,
Just take a good look
Up in the sky.

What you will see
Are the stars above,
And all you need
Is to proclaim your love.

Who you will find
And see so clear,
Are friends in mind
You want to hold near.

Whenever you need them
Just look up high,
Call their name
And see them fly.

Every friend you meet
Owns a star
And you can see them
No matter how far.

Whenever you are down
And want to get high,
Just take a good look
Up in the sky.

Testing The waters

You will never believe till you experience it. Love is devilish. People are being loved, people are being taken cared of and you sit at home wondering if love will ever be dropped at your frontdoor. Love comes easier if its not searched. Searching reminds you of the fantasy you have in your mind. The perfect guy with a good job, with lots of respondiblities and on top of that good looking. Focus less on the outside and focus more on the inside. I Just think you should test the waters. Testing the waters makes you know what u really want in Life.

Whats a good guy? What do you want in your man? Well ive always had a big fantasy about my future guy. I Picture him in my dreams but the question is does he really exist or im i watching to many movies?

Does a good guy always need to have a good job, be good looking, have his marvelous car and a large bankaccount? The question is No. People find love in gangster, drop outs whatever. Its The inside that counts. Doing bad things doesnt mean ur horrible or evil it simply means you are human. Perfection is not on anyone's side. You can try to be perfect but no one is.

Mistakes are to be made and forgiveness is by choice. There are things you can never forget but forgive. People mistake those two words for alot of things but if you really read between the lines there are things that makes sense.





Friends

When the first sex and city movie came out, I went with a couple of friends to watch it. There was a scene when Miranda gave Big an advice which led to Carrie being left at the altar. I looked at my friends and asked them "Can we ever be good friends like these four girls" They starred and nodded at me.

What’s my point? My Point is there is a difference between a friend and a FRIEND. (If you get what i mean). Everyone pretends in Life especially in friendships.

We believe more in our friends than we believe in ourselves. Others like me have been through a lot with friends. Some of them mostly betray you and you will be like I’m done with friends but the truth is u can never be done with friends. You just have to know how to deal with your friends.

There are three types of friends. 1. Hi-bye friends. 2. Regular Friends. 3. True, soul Friends.

It’s the True soul friends are the friends that mostly hurts us. These are the friends who can be trusted to be there for you whenever you need them, and they will go the extra mile for you.

Here are my tips:
1.Never tell many friends one story. Always tell a different story to everyone so when something happens you know where it came from.
2.Know your friends.
3.Things like boyfriend/husband matters shouldn’t be discussed. It should stay between you and your spouse.
4.You will definitely know when your friends envy you. When you notice it, BACK OFF.
5.Never do what others are doing. Peer pressure is NOT in your dictionary.
6.Have a friend who helps you in time of need. Not friends who forget you in time of need.
7.My Feelings never deceive me. When you have a bad feeling about someone you should think twice.
8.Never be friends with your friend’s friends. Known your friends
9.Knowing new people is good. But know your limit; remember you don’t know her/him that well. Take a while before you can trust.
10. Be yourself don’t change yourself to make new friends. That’s the worst thing you can do.

Feel Free to add more tips if have any.

How. Why. Who. When? Questions in Life

I have always had faith i could this. sometimes people just wish to bring you down. thats the reason why you should keep certain things to yourself. Get yourself a diary with a lock> start writing whats in you that u cant tell others. At the end of every week you should sit down and read it over with a cup of tea. You might cry over what you reading but read all you have written over a year and tell me if you will still be in that position.

Time is precious< to change is a Challenge. It doesnt go easier than we want it to be.

People go through a lot of things that drives them doing things no one will ever understand. We read the papers, watch tv and hear alot of amazing stories. We never know what made those people do what they were doing.
 I have a feeling i speak for many people who are in pain and dont want to show it. There is no need to hide how you feel or what you have done. You may be hated by many n loved by a few but what matters the most is God never rejects. How bad u are, how many hearts you have broken, how many lies you have told, How many guys uve slept with. If there can be a Change in your life. God provides that Change but all you need to do is seek!

I woke up from a dream 1 day. I heard a voice and the voice qouted" You are hated by many but not by me> What i think matters never shed a tear because you are hated by human"
There came a time i didnt want to step out my house,I felt the whole world had turned against me. My best friend was my dairy. I remember writing everything down, whenever i returned to read what i wrote after a week i would just burst out in tears and ask God 1 question 'WHY'??

HOW? WHY? WHO? WHEN?
How did this all get started, Why did it happen, Who is the cause of this all, When will it finally stop!!

These were the questions i keep asking myself. I needed answers and i finally got them. It took a while but i got them...

Yes i got the answers i had be looking for years in a short time.

My mirror says Im beautiful

A Preview of "My Mirror says Im beautiful'

There is a thing about humans, u can never tell whether they are speaking the truth or ur being deceived. They say stuff and you believe them but sometimes its better to listen to the inner YOU.
When you stand infront of your mirror when you put up your make up or dress up to impress you see what you believe in. Thats whats Life is about. The inner part can never deceive you cause thats who you are..
To change people's definition of appearances can only be occured when u surely have faith in you. Everyone was born with a destiny on earth. Some get good jobs while others get lousy jobs. Some where born wealthy while others struggle to get there. Anything thats worth having is worth fighting for. thats the same way everyone's mirror is different.. Believe in your mirror

Good Words

1.Just enjoy every moment of your life & make memories. Soon you'll realize how much you miss the day
2.When you say “I Love You” you are making a promise with someone else’s heart. Try to honor it, and never break it.
3. Speak out loud your good wishes and dreams. Words have power and God has ears.
4. Never get tired of doing little things for others. Sometimes those things occupy the biggest part of their hearts.
5.Only a STRONG people will admit their mistakes, laugh at them, never regret but learn from them
6. Never waste time on someone who doesn’t have time for you. Be with someone who will think you're worth their time.
7.You can love a lot of people in this world, but there’s only one you’ll love the most."
8.Love me or hate me? It's ur choice. If you love me, thank you. But if you hate me, thank you for make me stronger
9.Don’t be afraid of change, you may lose out on something good, but you might gain something even better
10. The best thing in life are unseen. That's why we close our eyes when we kiss, cry, and dream
11.Step 1: Forgive the ones that hurt you. Step 2: Forget the wrong that was done to you. Step 3: Move on
12.Goodbyes are hard. It may be harder for the person leaving, but it's always hardest for the one being left behind.
13.Its sad when you’re trying to make them smile, to give them all ur love. But still u’re just not enough
14.Difference between school and life. School; you're taught a lesson & then given a test. Life; you're given a test that teaches you a lesson
15.Guys will always be able to make girls cry. But if a girl can make a guy cry, she must really mean something to him
16.People may hate me & some will love me. But I love me & I dont want to pretend as someone just to impress people.
17.No one can be a better you than you. So quit trying to be someone else
18.People will get jealous when you become successful. Stay strong and don't let them bring you down
19.You can’t wait for life to hand you things. Give efforts. Because anything worth having is worth fighting for.
20.I would rather be single and be happy, than in a relationship that sucks the life out of you.

My favorite Friendship Quotes Collection!

1.Friends are God's way of taking care of us.
2.A friend is someone who reaches out for your hand...
and touches your heart.
3.Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet
when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.
4.Side by side or miles apart,
good friends are always
close to the heart.

5. A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg
even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.

6.You can buy many things, but there are 3 special things you can't buy: Love, life, and friendship

7. It's always easier to turn a friendship into love than to turn love into a friendship.
8. Real friends see your tears before they fall & see the pain in your eyes when you're trying to make a fake smile.
9. You can't make a million friends without getting a few haters. But remember, haters only hate the person they can't be.
10.Everybody needs a best friend to make them laugh when they think they won't be able to smile again.
11.Having a few number of true friends is always better than having a large number of friends that doesn't care.
12.Dear fake friends, Love me or leave me. No one forces you to stay here around me still!

My Best Female qoutes

1.Love isn't like a button which can you switch ON or OFF. Love needs time. Relationship needs works!

2.A real woman doesnt count how many guys she had in her life, but how many times she resisted guys for the man she really loves.

3.It's hard to completely trust someone after they hurt you. Even after they apologize & you forgive them, a small part of you will doubt.

4.Cheers to the person who broke my heart, because without them, I wouldn't be with the person I love today.

5.The average person tells 4 lies a day or 1460 a year; a total of 87,600 by the age of 60. And the most common lie is: I'm fine.

6.Just because you apologized doesn't mean my heart is magically fixed.

7.Isn't it ironic? We ignore those who adore us, adore those who ignore us, love those who hurt us, and hurt those who love us.

8.People are gonna talk about you especially when they envy you & your life. Let them. U affected their lives, not the other way around.

9.Some girls like bad boys because they think they can "fix" them. But they're not a broken car and you're no mechanic.

10.I miss being a kid. No one cared how you dressed, we were all friends, and you could be yourself. When did we turn so judgmental?

11.If you're single, make the best of it. It's not because you're not good enough for anyone, it means no one is good enough for you.

12. When something bad happens, you have 3 choices: You can either let it define you, destroy you, or let it strengthen you.

13.There's a hell in every hello. Be careful. There's something good in every goodbye. Be grateful.

14.Never chase them. Quickly replace them. Mistakes? Nah, I don't retrace them, I just move on and quickly erase them :)

15.I swore I needed you. Well consider them lies because baby here I am without you and I survived.

16.We're not perfect. Any of us. We make mistakes, we screw up but eventually we forgive and move forward.

17.It's funny how I'm good at giving advice to others, but when it comes to helping myself, I don't know what to do.

18.When you think you're not happy with your life, always think that someone is happy simply because you exist.

19.Afraid. That's what we always are. Afraid to love, afraid to share, afraid to open up, afraid to care. That's life.

20.If you ignore me, I will ignore you. If you don't start the conversation, we won't talk. If you don't put in the effort, why should I?

My Favorite Love poems

The Meaning
To love is to share life together
to build special plans just for two
to work side by side
and then smile with pride
as one by one, dreams all come true.

To love is to help and encourage
with smiles and sincere words of praise
to take time to share
to listen and care
in tender, affectionate ways.

To love is to have someone special
one who you can always depend
to be there through the years
sharing laughter and tears
as a partner, a lover, a friend.

To love is to make special memories
of moments you love to recall
of all the good things
that sharing life brings
love is the greatest of all.

I've learned the full meaning
of sharing and caring
and having my dreams all come true;
I've learned the full meaning
of being in love
by being and loving with you.

Published by AlGreen

...Time what you make of it.
So why read this?

Time Is what you make of it.
So why Leave this?
Why waste time to know who wrote this?
Please wait a while.

Time is what you make of it.
You need God every minute.
So just don't waste it.
You could be alive for the last day of your Life
.
Time is what you make of it.
It goes along with fulfilling your own Destiny.

Time is what you make of it.
Are You growing Older OR Wiser?
Aim high every Moment.
What goes Up,Must come down,So how long do You plan to stay Up?

Time is what you make of it.
When You Dream,Dream BIG.You have one Life to Live.

Time is what you make of it.
Money will come & go,but the Truth will remain.
Its better to Cry Now & Laugh later.

Time is what you make of it.Step back Now & give GOD the Lead Role.
Let Go&Let GOD &Move On.

Time is what you make of it.How much time do You have?
When are You going to put your Life in GOD's Hands?

Time is what you make of it.
Make the best out of this worst situation.
Talk to GOD in good times& bad times as well.

Time is what you make of it.You're the thief of your Own time,
not Procrastination.

Time is what you make of it.
There's an end to Life & there's a Start to it.
Actions are more faster than Words,step out Now.

Time is what you make of it.
Keep this Time in your Mind.
Knock,
Seek,
Pray & You shall easily Find.

Time is what you make of it.
If You wish I could write more,
Well I run out of Time Myself.
Read Ecclesiastes 3...
GOD Is A GOD of Time,
That's Why HE's FOREVER and EVER....

AMEN.

Written by Theo Wreko Brobbey

WHAT YOU REALLY FEEL YOU DIEING WITH IT.
SEE A LOT PAIN COMING  BUT YOU HIDING FROM IT.
ITS LIKE YOU KNOW  WHAT  YOU WANT BUT YOU CANT HAVE IT.
CAUSE YOU SCARED  TO LOOSE IT AND EVEN HURT IT.OR MAYBE DESTROY IT.
SOMETIMES YOU WISH TO  FORGET WHATEVER  AND GO FOR IT.
JUST WHEN YOU  WANT TO MAKE A MOVE THATS WHEN SOMETHING COMES TO STOP IT.
SO YOU  GIVE  UP ON IT  AND JUST STICK TO WHAT YOU HAVE. 
YOUR MIND WILL BE THERE BUT YOUR HEART   WILL BE FAR.ITS SAD.
ITS LIKE YOU HAVE WHAT YOU NEED BUT  YOU LOOSING WHAT YOU LOVE.
AND  YOU CANT LEAVE WHAT YOU NEED  WHAT IF  YOUR LOVE GOES WRONG.
YOU  DON'T WANT IT NO MORE, BUT ITS STRONG  TEMPTING  YOU  TO GO FOR MORE.
AND YOU CANT JUST LEAVE YOUR NEEDS, CAUSE THATS WHAT  NOW KEEPING YOU STRONG.
CONFUSED ,YOU WAS JUST PREVENTING YOURSELF FROM BEING LONELY.

NOW  IS LIKE   THE CHOICE YOU WILL MAKE MIGHT HURT SOMEBODY

Single Mothers Always Make it.

Children are blessings from God. They come in your life and brighten up your life. Planned or not planned once they come in your life you do all your possible best to do the best you can.
Many Children all over the world were brought up by single mothers. A single hard working mother can bring up her child the same way a couple will do. I know its easer said than done but come on its worth trying!
Christy was a young girl living with her parents. She always told herself ' God dont give me a man just like my Dad" if thats the case i will never ever get married.
Christy saw her dad beating up her mum for years and whenever her mum packed their bags she ends up unpacking them. She wondered why they never left. Hatred filled in her heart. She hated her dad so much and sometimes even her mum. Whenever she confronted her mum, her mum said ' Christy you will never understand until you witnessed it' She never understood what that means. Whenever she confronted her dad, he ends up beating her up. She wondered why her dad always raises his hand if there is an issue.
Being a housewife and your;l husband being the breadwinner for the family doesnt simply mean you should be used as a punching bag! I hate him Mum and i just wish you would open your eyes and face reality. Its never too late to start all over again, lets go somewhere else cause i want to go and im not going without you, Christy said. Her mum looked at her and shed a tear. My daughter you wouldnt understand. i will be fine just go and make a better future out of your life and make sure you make me proud.
Christy decided to leave. She got her own appartement got a job as a secretary.
Christy always got in touch with her mum through letters. In her mum"s letters she sounded ok! Christy was kinda releaved. She didnt want to call the house and hear her dad's voice. Christy got in touch with her old classmate Freda. They started hanging out and Christy told her everything that is going on back home. Freda was so sad and she said Christy made the right choice but she shouldnt have left her mum behind. Christy started thinking about what Freda said< so she decided to go back home and visit her mum.
Christy got to the house and found no one there. The door was opened and no one was in the house. She felt something weird was going on and decided to go to the neighbours.
Christy: Hey Miss Moore have u seen my parents? Been to the house no one is there and the door was unlocked?
Ms Moore: Oh My God Christy come in!!
Ms Moore: Your dad had an argument with your mum last night and i called the police> Your mum has been admitted at the hospital and your dad is in custody. Didnt know how to reach you my love. I can take you there right away!
Christy: Please Ms. Moore i would apprecate it ( Christy wipes away her tears)
They got to the hosipital and Christy got speechless all of a sudden. This woman lying here is not the woman i call mum. She had snitches all over her face and her face looked so different. The doctor said your mum s very weak and she has been using too many pills which aint good for her. Mum, have u been using pills? Why, When, Where? The 3 W's mummy couldnt answer. All Christy got was tears..
Christy stayed by her mum for days and didnt want to go anywhere and she said to her mum. Mum i have a feeling there is more to this. Her mum answered by saying ' Yes my daughter there is definetely more to this" Sit down and let me tell you the whole story.
There was a man called prince. he was my boyfriend. We were together for years. Your grandparents were against it but i insisted and decided to go with him even though he was poor i liked him for who he was and his parents accepted me for who i was. A few months after i runned away with him. He died in a lorry accident which caused me to go back to my parents house. Later found out i was pregnant. Christy said WHAT!!!!!!!.... Take it easy my daughter, let me complete my story.
Your grandmother adviced me to keep it a secret since it was fresh and decided i should marry your dad since he has always wanted to marry me. So i married your dad and told him the bay was his. We lived very happy and i didnt find it necessary to tell him the truth and i promised your grandmum i wouldnt. Till you got 6years. You got very ill and you needed a blooddoner. His blood didnt match yours and thats when i had to say the truth. Your dad couldnt accept the fact that you werent his child and has been blaming me since and hating me since. Thats the reason for his behaviour and anytime he remembers something he acts it one me. I dont know what to do and where rto go to. I have been taking pills to kalm down and think straight and after you left everything got worse.
Christy got up and gave her mum the biggest warmest hug ever. She said mummy no matter what im your daughter and i love you. Although i wish i could have seen my real dad. Mummy, Its never too late to start all over again. I Christy will get you out of this situation. If he doesnt want us, we have ourselves and i think thats more than enough. They both shed tears and smiled at each other.
Christy got her mum out of the house, took her back to the city and took care of her. They lived happily ever after. Oh what about Dad? They never saw him again after that last incident and they heard he is now a drunkard. Guess who told them. The nosy neighbour Ms. Moore...
Whats my point!!! Its never too late to start all over again. Just when you think the door is closed another one opens. just when you think you are a nobody thats when somebody proves you wrong. If you are not happy now, you will definetely be happy another day! Give it a chance..